Jutty Posted November 13, 2004 Posted November 13, 2004 Last night I went out with this girl that I met at work a few weeks ago. I picked her up at her house and we went to the mall and hung out there for about 3 1/2 hours. She really didn't have any store she wanted to visit but would go into any store i wanted to, and we checked out things together. Then we went to dinner, and after dinner we went to Borders. I am beginning to think she really likes me. A couple weeks ago at work I asked her if she had a boyfriend. Her response was that she didn't really but was just good friends with a guy who lives a couple hours away. When I asked her she told me that she would want to takes things slow. I understood that to mean like she was interested in me. We don't see alot of each other at work but we sometimes will get the chance to sit together. We work in a call center and its a very laid back casual environment. Sometimes, I feel its kind of like being in school. We discovered we have some of the same interests like dance, cheerleading and art. The only difference is our age. We are 10 years apart. I'll be 29 next month and she'll be 19 in January. I don't think she even realized that. I would not easily pass for being my age. I was 19 the last time i was dating anyone and we were together for only 7 months. Last night i had this dream and in the dream I was with this girl that was similar to her and we kissed.
Author Jutty Posted November 14, 2004 Author Posted November 14, 2004 I've been thinking about this girl all day, and I'm thinking I really like her. I haven't talk to her today. I told her i would see her either tomorrow or monday. I don't think she realized I'm 10 years older than her. I'm think I should tell her but would that ruin the possiblities of a relationship? How do you think the age difference would affect the relationship? ps. I never even touched her once when we were together last night.
bluetuesday Posted November 14, 2004 Posted November 14, 2004 be honest with her. if she's a keeper, she's going to find out eventually anyway. and it'll cause more damage to have lied about it and have to admit the truth later. if she wants out because of the age difference, it's best to know now. 10 years is a considerable gap but not impossible if you're a good match. at least you're both adults. and it may be as you're not very experienced with women, the difference is less important in your case. good luck man.
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