robbysurfs Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 I was in a 1yr long relationship with a women who at first kinda sold me on the idea of she could be the one. I originally didn't want to get involved with her because she was kinda a party girl even tho she is a school teacher. She said she loved me very soon into the relationship and I basically had high expectations plus going with all the hype she was pumping in my head. I had not been in a relationship 3yrs prior. It became rocky she said we very different and that was that she dumped me. I was like fine goodbye and went nc few weeks later here she comes and i fell back into it with her sex,spending time together yadda yadda...We would break off again I would go nc same stuff she would contact me and I would fall in. This last time tho she txted me on my birthday after a 4month nc and I replied basically it went to seeing her again once a week for a few more months then one day after sleeping at her house I haven't heard from her again for like 4months and I have not contacted her. I am just angry and sad and I feel used. I am 37 yrs old and I feel like I wasted a yr of my life I wish I never met her. First month in I didn't care and now almost 4 months later I am a mess...
Philosoraptor Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 Well she uses you when she needs you and holds all the cards here so it seems. When she starts calling you come running back. Put your foot down and don't let it happen anymore.
Author robbysurfs Posted August 28, 2013 Author Posted August 28, 2013 ty your right I don't think she will contact me again...famous last words but I don't I am just sad about it all.
Chi townD Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 ty your right I don't think she will contact me again...famous last words but I don't I am just sad about it all. Oh, I wouldn't bet the farm on that. She created a pattern with you and she's established you as her back up plan. The reason why you probably haven't heard from her in months is because she's probably in another relationship. But, if that relationship goes south, take a scientific wild ass guess who she's probably going to call for a shoulder to lean on and an ego stroke. Don't put your life on hold for her. time to move on and leave her in your wake.
Author robbysurfs Posted August 28, 2013 Author Posted August 28, 2013 Thanks man good choice of words "leave her in your wake" I am gonna steal that one. I am trying to move on, I guess I never truly healed from the first breakup with her. Right now everything is lack luster and I cant even look other women in the face I think about her everyday this sucks.
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