DresdenKing Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 Ex (dumper) just broke NC with a text asking how I'm doing. This puts me in an interesting spot. She just gave me the power back. There was always this small sliver of momentary hope every morning that I'd wake up with a text or missed call. Not even so I could converse with her or win her back, because I'd like to think I'm moving on with my life. It's been moreso just to feel the satisfaction of knowing she still misses me. Problem now is, I don't know if she does miss me or just wants to test me to see if I'd message her back. A big part of me wants to ignore her, because the way she dumped me was VERY sudden and out of nowhere, and when I tried to talk it out with her she just gave me the typical "I need space" line. After a few minutes of attempting to get a reason why, I simply left and drove home from her place without begging (proud of myself for that), and the NC began. I just figure I'd get some of your opinions on whether or not I should respond. I know the ultimate ideal goal of NC is not to want to spite the other person or "win" the grand silent treatment battle, but if it means I'm getting some satisfaction out of ignoring her now, does that mean I'm not as healed as I thought I was? I'm making her wait either way, that's already decided.
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