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I still love her. I do. Long story short, she broke up with me over the fact that I got mad whenever she didn't have time for me?

 

But honestly, every day, I grow more and more angry. It's almost like the hurt turned to anger.

 

We're going into our first year together, and we're both taking the same courses as well. She has a couple of friends that have some bizzare crushes on me, mainly because they knew that her and I were a thing. There are numerous other girls that kinda like me and are pretty close to her.

 

I can undoubtedly see all of us hanging out together at the library or something while studying or doing homework. My question here is, should I put in a little extra effort to flirt with her friends in front of her, or should I just swallow my pride and act normal amongst the entire group.

 

She was a girl that really did care for me, and she really did love me. I know that. But in time, all of that changed.

 

All in all, should I really make her feel like a friend (and only a friend) or will she not even care?

 

I just want to get over her.

 

Oh and by the way, we still talk about normal/random stuff on facebook, with her always commenting about how cute I am and how I'm so this and that (positive remarks). I know I know, NC is the way to go, but my situation is too different to do NC.

 

Thanks for reading.

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Oh of your situation is astronomically unique and different from everyone else's. I'm sorry to inform you that we have all lived the same if not more than what you have experienced in your relationship and by not fully adhering to and implementing NC you are only simply prolonging the inevitable. And to answer you question, revenge is never good, I tell you this from personal experience you will only end up feeling like scum if you attempt to execute your emotions against your better judgment. Let go and let be, learn to forgive and find forgiveness within you. You will feel much better at the end knowing that you did the right thing.

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but my situation is too different to do NC.

 

No it's not.

 

 

And I don't mean to be harsh. But seriously. EVERYONE starts out thinking that their particular situation is "special" or "different" in order to hold onto some hope that they don't have to go down the more difficult or more painful route.

 

 

Months from when the "fog" has lifted and you can see clearly, you'll realize that it wasn't "different".

 

 

NC is the quickest, cleanest, easiest way too move on. No exceptions.

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Dream on, honey. All relationships are different, but all breakups are surprisingly similar.

 

No one is special enough to not do NC.

 

Yep, basically the only credible excuse is because you have children together and you have to communicate about the care of the children. Every other reason to avoid NC is BS.

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Revenge is not worth it.

 

If you loved this person, it will not make you feel better in the end

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