Author ShiningMoon Posted August 28, 2013 Author Posted August 28, 2013 How is saying you ARE interested any different than asking him out? By asking him out, you're telling him you're interested. His response will be what it is regardless. He put himself out there and you mucked it up; the least you could do is put yourself out there in return. I didn't say it was different, on the contrary, I said asking him out is equivalent to saying I'm interested.
Simon Phoenix Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 What if I tell him this? I sincerely apologize if it seemed as though I was trying to blow you off repeatedly. It definitely was not the case. I was interested, just so you know. Timing was a little off due to our conflicting schedules and I got a little frustrated I guess (it's no excuse, I know). Does it sound like I'm interested or just desperate? How about stop with the bullsh*t and just be real? Stop playing games and actually take a stand for something.
Author ShiningMoon Posted August 28, 2013 Author Posted August 28, 2013 How about stop with the bullsh*t and just be real? Stop playing games and actually take a stand for something. What should I say then? I need some help here, please. I'm not playing games.
crude Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 Wouldn't it be something if when you're 65, you'll look back at this guy as the best prospect you ever had, like the Katy Perry song(The One That Got Away). It seems to me if you're THAT into him, the ball is in your court. Ask him out, apologize without begging, and make it clear it'd be a shame if you never got to at least get to know each other. And if YOU invite HIM, don't go for your credit card in slow motion, pretending you're willing to pay. If you can tell a man outright you're not interested, it can be more rewarding to tell a man you are interested. Who knows, if you can salvage the relationship, you might look back and laugh, together.
Author ShiningMoon Posted August 28, 2013 Author Posted August 28, 2013 Wouldn't it be something if when you're 65, you'll look back at this guy as the best prospect you ever had, like the Katy Perry song(The One That Got Away). It seems to me if you're THAT into him, the ball is in your court. Ask him out, apologize without begging, and make it clear it'd be a shame if you never got to at least get to know each other. And if YOU invite HIM, don't go for your credit card in slow motion, pretending you're willing to pay. If you can tell a man outright you're not interested, it can be more rewarding to tell a man you are interested. Who knows, if you can salvage the relationship, you might look back and laugh, together. Been listening to that KP song all day, ironically! No, I'd totally be willing to pay. After all, I want to make this up to him. I'm the one who messed up. He shouldn't be paying for my cowardice.
Simon Phoenix Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 What should I say then? I need some help here, please. I'm not playing games. Say that you really like him and want to go out on a date with him. Come up with a time and if he can't go, suggest another. If he says no, then oh well, lesson learned for next time.
Author ShiningMoon Posted August 28, 2013 Author Posted August 28, 2013 I sent him a message. I know he read it but he hasn't replied. Not a good sign. I'm afraid I'm gonna have to say next.
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