FearingTEN Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 My long story short: -Dated a girl for 2 and a half years. -All was well until she admitted into having a crush with another guy a year into our relationship -Things went downhill as her talking to this guy made me super protective (which she didnt like ) -Had many arguments but always forgave each other in the mornings -She breaks up with me out of the blue -She dates the other guy 2 weeks later -I begin crying, pleading and begging her back for two months -She said to leave her alone and became VERY harsh and bitter towards me -Decided to stop begging and go no contact (exactly a week ago) Basically, I have ignored her 5 times (she asked if I wanted some of my stuff back) But today, exactly a week since I last contacted her , she texted me at around 5 am telling me that she misses talking to me and that she had a dream about me and that she feels really bad for hurting me. The text is as follows: "Hey! I miss talking to you no matter how mad you make me and how annoyed I get of you sometimes I miss talking to you!!" & "And I really miss talking to you, you've done nothing to me and I feel like I'm gonna cry cuz I'm so stupid" & "Idk why I break relationships with people so harshly.. First Ahtziri, then you. I know it's wrong to hurt someone like Ive done, but I really don't know how to say goodbye. I just had a dream about you both and now I'm In a ****ty mood because why do I do that to people I care about.. I thought it would be easier to just break all ties with you because im going to college and I thought it would be easier to break ties with Ahtziri because we went to diff schools but truth is I miss you both" If you were wondering, "Ahtziri" used to be her best friend until a big fight broke them apart. I still love her very much. And I am trying everything to get her back. But I do not want to mess up as much as I already did (begged for 2 months) & all of a sudden went no contact after she told me to leave her alone. I know that I shouldnt get my hopes up considering that text might just be out of sympathy and not a message that she wants me back. I dont know what to do. Do I respond short n sweet? Or do I continue NC? PLEASE HELP!
barky2 Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 DO NOT CONTACT HER!! LET HER STEW IN HER EMOTIONS. EVERYTHING WAS ABOUT HER.HER.HER. SMILE. THAT WAS A EGO BOOST FOR YOU! NOW LEAVE YOUR PHONE AT HOME AND GO FOR A WALK TO CLEAR YOUR HEAD. DO NOT CONTACT HER !!!!!!!!! Sorry for the caps Barky 1
Chi townD Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 She's feeling guilty! Nothing more. So, she misses you. So what.... I miss watching college football and it's not here yet. Re-read those text. Do you see ANYTHING in there that indicates that she's sorry, that she made a mistake and wants to come back? NOPE! I don't see it. only that she misses you. I say continue on with NC. She's just trying to ease her guilt. 2
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