Jonson Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 So I met this girl a few months ago and she seemed nice and really liked me and we hit it off right away. Loads of phone calls some good nights out for dinner and car shows etc. but it seemed like she was all over me and said she was so attracted to me and we had alot of sex. There was alot of time holding each other after sex and I felt something good about her , she said when I told her my feelings she loved it and made her melt. She told me that I was making her fall in love with me and that when I touched her tummy did summersaults. She told me she had been broken before and hurt. And told me she hoped meeting me would turn into something. She made a comment about it was just sex with us, and I said no its not, she went wierd after that. That was about 3 or 4 weeks ago Then she became distant, not making contact with as much. We did go out last week and she was a bit flirty but I ignored it and just was friendly but nice. She talked about doing stuff in the future together and she did make eye contact with me alot, she kept looking into my eyes. That night I told her how I was feeling about her and she got all close to me and held my hand then hugged me and then kissed my cheek. She does have kids that live at home still. She recently asked me out for dinner but then cancelled cause she has a very sick female friend that had taken a turn for the worse, so she bailed on me, I did not get upset. But I have not heard from her in 5 days I have called and text but no reply yet. I really like her alot. I don't understand the cold treatment? Does she just want sex with me.? I'm wondering if she wants a relationship I'm trying to understand how I play this now?
Philosoraptor Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 She's made it clear, with both words and action, that this is not a relationship and is just sex. You need to decide if you are ok with that. If so, have fun. If not, cut ties and find someone who wants the same thing you do.
todreaminblue Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 I think the only way you will really know is to talk to her about what is going on go and see her.. you know her body intimately i feel you have that right to know what happened as she knows you intimately.....so up the communication adn nto the sex.......even if you didnt have sex with her you deserve to know whether to move on or not......i would think she is a bit towards it being sex.....but i dont know her......but you know her intimately so why not ask if she let you have sex with her you should be able to ask where you stand and her be honest and tell you....thats logic isnt it?.be honest with how you feel to her......if ti is just sex and you arent looking for that, say so and be open too.......i wish you the best...deb....
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