vipinremo Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 (edited) I don't know it to post my story in breakup because still I don't know if its over or still to wait...well i'm a guy of just 18 but my girlfriend is 5years elder than me, she's my cousin sister..n I live in India so probably u guys could guess,if this relation has to end in a marriage then It's a lot difficult...when started this relation, I never thought of future n marriage.. I was just feeling happy being in the relation..now coming to the problem, our relation has entered the 3rd year by the starting of this year..but its a disappointing year...lot of problems started happening in our relation..we love each other a lot ..the problem is her age is now 23, the age where most Indian girls would get married..her mom came to know about her relation n from the time my girlfriend has started avoiding..she loves her mom..n hence she likes to go with her mom...she realized the problem of this relation only when her mom started telling about the problems of this relation n insisting her to break..she started avoiding a lot.. Now I'm in such a pain where I don't know whats in her mind..i asked her in many ways if she likes to continue..she doesn't answer anything..and by the way this is a LDR kind..we have hardly met for 2months, I give small visits to my native Kerala where she's living..n hence we meet..n in certain occasions we get chance to meet...now my pain is I don't know if to wait or to forget her..i called her even today but she talked like, treating me as a brother than a boy friend...now what should I do? I couldn't forget her because I love her a lot...please help Edited August 28, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator fixed spelling errors and added paragraphs, please use them
Author vipinremo Posted August 27, 2013 Author Posted August 27, 2013 I need her, this is my first love n I just need her to be my gal this life time..i cannot marry her bcoz in here the min age for a guy to marry is 21 n i'm still studying..not in a job to carry out a marriage life...n people never allow to marry an elder woman..in here, guy should be elder than woman...although such marriages are not abandoned here..people never allow to happen this marriage..i need her but i'm not sure if she's waiting for me to complete my studies, get a job n then take her with me..bcoz time's not enough for me to have a job soon...n she won't be able to wait for more years since everyone will start pressurisin her to marry..my problem is that she hasn't said she wants it to end so I assume she needs me...so I want her to tell me if she's waiting for me or she's trying to forget me..
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