JDPT Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 I agree its intentional but really childish. Are you sure you want to be with someone who plays games like that? That's what I thought. What's he going to send next, perhaps a period or when he gets upset an exclamation mark? 1
esteem-jam Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 he sent a whole message but somehow it didn't come through Oh yes it did came through. The internet works on Transmission Control Protocol. Every packet is checked that it is received as it was sent. If it cant be received AS it was sent, it is Re-sent again, and this continiues for 4 minutes. If after 4 minutes the delivery is not successful, then you get a timeout. And thats it. No approximate packet, no guess-playing. Either you get the 100 % authentic and correct data, or you get nothing at all.
Author Brown-Eyez Posted August 28, 2013 Author Posted August 28, 2013 Oh yes it did came through. The internet works on Transmission Control Protocol. Every packet is checked that it is received as it was sent. If it cant be received AS it was sent, it is Re-sent again, and this continiues for 4 minutes. If after 4 minutes the delivery is not successful, then you get a timeout. And thats it. No approximate packet, no guess-playing. Either you get the 100 % authentic and correct data, or you get nothing at all. good to know, but his message was via text not email, not sure if there is a difference in transmission methods...
Author Brown-Eyez Posted August 28, 2013 Author Posted August 28, 2013 Did he mean it? Yes. Have I done it? Yes. Will he prob do it again? Maybe. Who cares. And in going to tell you why Obviously if he had something to say, he woulda said it He didn't. Now its turned into a game " OK she didn't respond, what can I send to make her respond"? Do not respond. If he sends another one...post here first and we will guide you Stay strong You also, just got a ego boost. Barky Thank you Barky for noticing the ego boost...yay! I guess I don't suck as much as I thought I did 1
Author Brown-Eyez Posted August 28, 2013 Author Posted August 28, 2013 I agree its intentional but really childish. Are you sure you want to be with someone who plays games like that? okay, just tell my brain to stop liking him and I'm all for it!!
Soat Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 good to know, but his message was via text not email, not sure if there is a difference in transmission methods... Completely different. You're correct. SMS(texts) are reliable too. Lol trust the 3 pages of comments. He sent this to get you to respond. Tell the coward to go buzz off by ignoring him
esteem-jam Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 good to know, but his message was via text not email, not sure if there is a difference in transmission methods... All digital, everywhere. Doesnt make a difference.
hopefulfaerie Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 okay, just tell my brain to stop liking him and I'm all for it!! Exactly!!! It's still a constant battle within myself every day all day. I KNOW logically that I deserve so much better and the pain won't last forever. But my addiction overrides ALL logic! Completely TERRIFYING!!! 1
Soat Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 Exactly!!! It's still a constant battle within myself every day all day. I KNOW logically that I deserve so much better and the pain won't last forever. But my addiction overrides ALL logic! Completely TERRIFYING!!! It doesnt override your logic actually. You're here, instead of running back to him/her.
Sparkle304 Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 Exactly!!! It's still a constant battle within myself every day all day. I KNOW logically that I deserve so much better and the pain won't last forever. But my addiction overrides ALL logic! Completely TERRIFYING!!! I COMPLETELY agree! For almost two weeks I've been doing everything to convince myself that he's a total douche who did nothing but lead me on and lie to me.......but he's the kinda guy that everyone loves! You know the type: charming, easy going, fun, adventurous, ambitious. AHHHH!!!!!! All my logic just disappears and I end up hoping for some random text from him..... Am i hopeless?!?!
Author Brown-Eyez Posted August 28, 2013 Author Posted August 28, 2013 Brown Eyez, Maybe it is silly, putting such deep thought and getting so emotional over a coma. . . BUT. . . I COMPLETELY GET IT!!! It's good you are laughing about it but I hope your not being too hard on yourself. . You are still "addicted" and you just saw a sliver of light to your "fix" you are still craving it as to be expected until you heal. You are doing great!!!! You came here didn't you? That is remarkable progress because I bet there was a time you would have responded. Now here I will give you a real laugh. Ok here goes, God and Everyone forgive me. . . . I would LOVE I MEAN LOOOOVE to get a comma from " jerkface" Yeah, now how pathetic is that???? Just being honest. So seriously everyone listen, do you guys hear that? The sound of the planet laughing at me? Ha ha ha! Just kidding! Love you guys! No, you wouldn't really want to get a comma because it is such a minor breadcrumb really like a bit of bread speck that it would send you into wondering & speculating about his intentions...not good at all for the effort he made. Everyone commenting today on this development has really really helped me not go over the edge about it and I'm now just curious to see if he does anything next. Though folks feel certain he'll contact me again I just don't see it. I see his attempt as so awfully minor (given how much he gave to me in the past) that I more discouraged than ever So I sadly soldier on with no contact and try to be supportive to others who are equally broken hearted.
aussietigerwolf Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 There was no message, nor was it a mistake. He sent it to mess with you... To prove that he still had power over you.
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