bumblebee22 Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 After breaking up with my ex after he cheated on me, I was okay. I blocked his number, blocked him from fb and I felt good. But after a while I started to get really sad and now that Im back in school where he also goes I seem to be relapsing. I cant eat, I just keep thinking about him. On an iphone, you can't block imessages and he texted me last week wanting to be on good terms and he seemed genuinely upset. I only responded saying that when I move in to my apartment at school if he wanted to come talk to me I would, but only then- no text messages. He ended by saying "I will never stop loving you." (I didnt answer) So then tell me why he walks into a class with the girl he cheated with and flaunts that they are friends/hooking up right in my face. I have never felt so disrespected. I don't want to go into a downwards spiral but this is the hardest thing I have ever had to do and nothing my friends say can help, and nothing he could ever say to me would make me able to forgive him/be with him again. This is so tough.
TrblinMN Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 I'm sorry you are in this situation. It seems to me that you did a lot to move forward. It's just unfortunate that you have to run into him like that. Sorry I have nothing to say to make things better for you. I wish good things for you if thy helps.
mea_M Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 Bumblebee, I understand. Let me give you a little tip. I was having issues with my brother. It was over a family property. He kept texting me all sorts of messages that upset me. I called my phone carrier and they had a feature for all of 4.99 per month allowing me to block calls and texts from numbers. I signed up. Since then he got the message. Listen, do your best to avoid him and move forward. Is it always easy, No. but, it can be done. Hugs Mea:)
SadPanda22 Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 What a jerk, flaunting the girl he cheated with right in front of you, ugh. Even if your phone carrier doesn't have the option to block texts or phone calls from certain numbers, there's an app for that! Lot's of them are free too. Download one of those and promptly block his ass.
Omei Posted August 29, 2013 Posted August 29, 2013 He cheated he still hangs with her, you cant forgive him you said so yourself so, you dont spare another moment feeling sad about him hes nothing now.
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