Jilly10340 Posted November 12, 2004 Posted November 12, 2004 Okay, so I took everyone's advice and started dating for some fun. I've been out on a date with this guy twice now. He's really nice and sweet and says he likes me a lot. We talk everyday either through im or on the phone. We were talking last night through IM and he said something kind of weird. He said that he like me, a lot. He said that it worries him. It's not the fact that he likes me that worries him, it's the fact of how much he likes me that worries him. He said he likes me unproportionately more then the amount he knows about me and that worries him. He says it doesn't worry him too much to stop seeing me, and it's not a good or bad thing, it's just a thing. Can anyone tell me what he could possibly mean by this?
MelodyJ Posted November 12, 2004 Posted November 12, 2004 It sounds to me like he wants you to know how he feels about you after such a short time. Maybe he was just dating for fun as well, and was'nt prepared to fall for someone so fast, and does'nt want to get hurt. How do you feel about him, relationship wise? Because if he told you this, then you now know that each date will make him that much more into you. Maybe he is afraid you might not feel the same way and he was just feeling you out? Now that you know how much he likes you, you can decide if you may want him as a real boyfriend, and not just a casual date, that's how it might be heading on his end. What did you say to him when he told you that?
Author Jilly10340 Posted November 12, 2004 Author Posted November 12, 2004 Well, I like him a lot too. I didn't really plan on liking him but I like him more with each date we go on. He's really nice and sweet and most importantly I think I can trust him. After he told me that he asked how I thought about him. I told him that I also liked him a lot and that I haven't been this excited and happy about someone in a long time. He asked me why I was happy and I told him that I think he's really sweet and I like hanging out with him a lot and stuff like that.
MelodyJ Posted November 15, 2004 Posted November 15, 2004 Jilly, It sounds like one of those "just when you don't expect it" things, you said you finally started dating for fun, then, there it is! It sure give hope to those who are feeling like it wll never happen to them! Good for you, if it is what you want, sounds like things are heading an a good direction. Did you see him over the weekend? Was it nice? All us lonely unhappys need to live vicariously thru you happy people! M
Author Jilly10340 Posted November 15, 2004 Author Posted November 15, 2004 Yeah, we did hang out over the weekend. Friday we went to a movie and then hung out till about 5:30 in the morning just talking and watching T.V. Saturday we went to a party up at a college around here and we stayed over at his friends house and Sunday we watched a football game together. He's really sweet, he wrote me this morning and said that he missed sleeping next to me last night like we did when we stayed at his friends on Saturday. He said he missed me and wished I was here so he could give me a big hug and hold me for awhile! I'm so happy, I constantly walk around with a big smile on my face. Even my mom, who's usually the first one to say to be careful and take things slow, is excited for me. She says who knows, he may be the one. I think it's a little too soon for that but I really like how things are going right now!
MelodyJ Posted November 15, 2004 Posted November 15, 2004 Well, I am very happy for you my dear. It really give hope to the others who are searching for "the one". Maybe people will listen when they read over and over to stop searching, thats when love finds you. It sounds so cliche, yet you are proof, it just happens when you stop looking! I hope it works out for you. Keep us posted. M
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