IamLegend Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 Sorry for my Spelling/Grammar before hand i'm writing this on my crappy iphone. I have had this feeling for a while now even before we broke up. My ex is a personal trainer and She has this Client that she helped loose 100 pounds and theyve been getting extremeley close. They hang out almost every sunday. The client buys her VERY EXPENSIVE things ALL THE TIME. I was never introduced when we were together because she wanted to keep her relationship with her client "Professional" but now there damn near best friends since we broke up ! I have asked her about it and she got really offended. She denies it ofcourse but i have a gut feeling that she's lies and is indeed having an affair with this woman and that's part of the reason why she's so resistant towards me. I understand it's ok to have friends but this lady is 47 years old my ex is 26. Why the hell would they be hanging out like this ? They act like a damn couple. The client takes her on trips. The client gives her money. They go out to movies, dinner. Hang out and watch movies at her house. My ex even washes her clothes at her house. It pisses me off. I'll admit if i'm wrong after all Her mom passed 5 years ago so maybe she's looking for that "mom" figure ? idk I just am tired of having these thought's about my ex. & the main reason why i'm so skeptical is because when i asked my ex if she ever talked to her about me she said "hell no". Also when they first started hanging out my ex said she'd never compromise her buisness relationship with her clients. Now there BFF'S PS: My ex has had one sexual experience with another female so i don't put it passed her. Plus she's a professional BASKETBALL PLAYER. You know what that means... 1
Author IamLegend Posted August 27, 2013 Author Posted August 27, 2013 So she had sex with another woman and you make a thread asking if it's possible she likes women? Really? Why? She's your ex, give her a video camera and your cloud storage login and move on with your life. I'm not going to move on yet. Not untill I give it my all and that's that. Period I only added the having sex with a woman part to Show that the idea isn't too far fetched.
Mrlonelyone Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 Your ex is bisexual. Bisexual is not straight but not just gay either. It makes the world a simpler place with only two bins but reality is more complex. The functional thing is she is your EX. As much as we hate to think it is really 100% over forever odds are good that it is. So move on.
BluEyeL Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 I don't know, she could be gay, or bisexual (based on the fact that she had previous same sex experiences), or she could be straight. I wonder why do you care, since she's your ex anyway. I know that I travel with female friends and even had a female roomate for 3 years, and I'm 100% straight. But I can imagine some people surely wondered if I was gay solely based on having a female roomate or when checking in the hotel with my other friend when we traveled together. These days is not as safe to connect to same sex people, you will be accused of being gay. 30 years ago, it would have been safe. Iguess we must either have sex with someone (relationship etc), or stay alone within the 4 walls of the house.
MidwestUSA Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 I don't know if she's gay, but she's got herself a sugar mama. Sounds like she just couldn't resist having this woman throw money at her. Is she a very materialistic person? It could be just that those needs are being met, or she may be giving the 47 year old a little something in return. But, as others have said, she's your ex. And I assume there's a good reason behind that.
Onward_Upward Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 ... I have asked her about it and she got really offended. She denies it of course but i have a gut feeling that she's lies and is indeed having an affair with this woman ... This is the giveaway right here... That fact that she became almost "offended" at you suggesting a lesbian relationship indicates that she was being "defensive". If she was truly "just friends" with this other woman, then I would expect her to laugh at your suggestion... and even make a joke of it. Also, as she has had lesbian relationships before (ONE that you know of), we can safely rule out that she's "religious", or a sexual prude, so I see no reason at all why she would take offense at what you said. Having said that... Why do you care though? I mean, she's now your EX... And whatever brought that situation into being is almost irrelevant now. Time to move on, no?
berkeley1987 Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 i have the same feeling.. that my ex was a lesbian. she broke up with me and says she hates men now. she has a crush on her yoga instructor and dated women in the past. it really pissed me off.. but i never brought it up with her.
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