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Have you ever had to ask your ex for a huge favor soon after a break up?


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I dated a woman for about several months and broke up with her about one month ago. I just did not feel we were compatible and we had different outlooks on life. Now I need to ask her a huge favor. It wasn't a bad break up but she tried hard to hold back tears during the process. I haven't heard from her since. She even decided to still give me a gift she was planning on giving me prior to the breakup.

 

Now I need to ask her for a big favor. I can't go into details but the favor requires for her to come to my town from 2 hours away where she lives. I plan to pick her up and drop her back off at home the same day but the problem is, of course, that I am asking her to do me this huge favor after dumping her. Even though I treated her with respect and was kind to her during our relationship, this would be very awkward. She is the only one that can really help me out of this bind. Anyone with any experience in this area?

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Suicide is a better choice dude. What are you thinking?

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Talk about bad timing... it's a bit uncouth, too.

 

Also, you said she hasn't contacted you since the breakup, so she is actively NCing you... Check out some of the posts on this forum regarding those who were on the receiving end of a split... some of them are tragic and enormously painful (And that's just for those reading!)

 

On first thought, it does seem rather cruel of you.

 

In order to give a fuller answer, we would need to know more details... I do not see why you can't elaborate further, unless the activity is illegal or something ;)

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