Ex broke NC after 8 days

[lalalovekay]

Its been exactly 8 days of no contact but he just texted me to wish me a Happy BIrthday. Do i reply?

 

i sitll miss him so much, i promised myself i wouldnt reply unless he texted me he missed me or something like that. BUt i dont want to be rude? Help Please

[Soat]

Say thanks. That's it

[barky2]

Its simple.

 

" Thanks! :)" - if you wanna get back with him.

 

" Thank you " - if you don't

 

 

 

Barky

[barky2]

Oh and behalf of LoveShack, happy birthday!

 

 

 

 

Barky

[lalalovekay]

Oh and behalf of LoveShack, happy birthday!

 

 

 

 

Barky

 

Thank you so much!

FYI everytime I post something I always look and see if you respond. Your advice is always so helpful

[BigGirlPantiesOn]

Rude?

 

Vs

 

Your sanity?

 

 

People pleasing is about you, not him. You want to keep your heart from breaking more? Silence is the solution.

[BigGirlPantiesOn]

On and yes...a very happy birthday.

 

What a nice gift to give yourself....the gift of self-respect by remaining silent.

[barky2]

I'm glad I could help in some way.

 

 

Barky

[lalalovekay]

Its simple.

 

" Thanks! :)" - if you wanna get back with him.

 

" Thank you " - if you don't

 

 

 

Barky

 

And what if he never replies? ):

I sent it, the first one

[barky2]

Doesn't matter.

 

Be greatful he did wish you one.

 

Hundreds of Ls members never received one.

 

Be thankful.

 

 

 

 

 

Barky

[BigGirlPantiesOn]

You see? Now you are expecting a reply. How is this good for you?

[barky2]

Just be thankful you got one.

 

That's it.

 

Put a smile on your face.

 

 

 

 

Barky

[lalalovekay]

You see? Now you are expecting a reply. How is this good for you?

 

I know but I just miss him. Starting over with nc I guess

[lalalovekay]

Just be thankful you got one.

 

That's it.

 

Put a smile on your face.

 

 

 

 

Barky

 

 

 

Youre right. Thank you