Nygal78 Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 I dated this guy 10 years ago. We had a great relationship. He cheated on me after 2 1/2 years. We tried to work it out, but i just couldn't. I broke up with him even though i still loved him. He ended up marrying that girl. Fast forward to now. We have had a little contact through the years. I remained friends with some of his fiends and brother. Over the past few months i haven't been able to get him off my mind. Then a few days ago i ran into his brother who told me he is separated. My heart actually skipped a beat. I still have so many feelings and i want to contact him, but i don't know how. What do i say? Should I even bother. I am so lost. It is consuming me. Please help!
robsa Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 Why wouldn't you? contacting him or getting back in touch does not mean you have to get back together, and enough time has definitely passed for you both to know what you want and if there are still feelings! it can be closure or it can be a beginning but you have nothing to lose in contacting him and if he is not interested or not ready he will let you know!
Author Nygal78 Posted August 26, 2013 Author Posted August 26, 2013 Thanks Robsa. Honestly i am scared. I am not sure if I could handle being turned away.
robsa Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 Well what is best for you...wondering one day "what if" you would have contacted him..... or contacting him and being rejected...you know yourself best! I can only tell you what I think and if I were you I'd rather contact him and know that i have done all i could! 1
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