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7 month of NC and a thanking mail from the ex. WTF?!


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Just Venting -

 

Ex sends me an email thanking me, that exactly 5 years ago I helped him to get into Music Academy, and with that realizing his dream of becoming a musician. He is doing fine, and he hopes I'm doing well too, because I only deserve the best. (the thanks come about 5 years late, he didn't really appreciate what he had when we were together)

 

I didn't feel anything when reading the mail, didn't reply to it, but I'm having these weird dreams since then about me getting back together with him. Now 48 hours after receiving the mail, I realized that it's bothering me more than it should.

 

Probably he is just trying to comfort himself and feel less guilty after being an ******* in the relationship. Which makes me want to write him ugly stuff, but hating is caring after all.

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Ouch! I can see why it would be on your mind now. 7 months isn't really very long. I bet it will pass. Might take a couple weeks though :(

Truthfully it would bother me a little too. I would feel a little sting and also a little POd!!

Sorry I couldn't be more helpful but, I would be extra nice to yourself for the next little while til it passes. As far as answering his email. I don't even know what I would do??? That's a tough call and probably only you know if you can handle that.

best of luck!!!

And remember, be sweet to yourself!

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just goes to show you that they may never truly forget us...

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