Author quartz88 Posted September 28, 2013 Author Posted September 28, 2013 DON'T do this. Just stop everything. You don't want to be his "friend". You want to be in a relationship with him, so stop the "friend" talk. I initially thought there could have been potential there, but I do *not* want to date this guy. He was rude and it was surprising considering he comes across as one of the guys who's not a jerk. As far as being "friends," we know a lot of the same people so it's inevitable that I'll run into him. Doesn't mean we have to hang out, though. ***** I'm over it because I thought he was rude, but he did email me today. This what he said: "Well, I don't recall doing that. I believe that's a bit of harsh judgement you're passing on. If you were offended by something I did or felt ignored, my apologies. There were several other people I recognized in the lobby that evening who I also did not get the opportunity to greet. You were not the only one." It's nice of him to follow-up, but as Tara247 said, clearly I just wasn't on his radar that night at all. He still made a conscious decision not to say hi. That speaks volumes and I'm sorry I ever spent neural impulses trying to decipher this guy. He should have never asked me out or kept talking to me if he wasn't interested. NEXT!! 1
cif Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 I initially thought there could have been potential there, but I do *not* want to date this guy. He was rude and it was surprising considering he comes across as one of the guys who's not a jerk. As far as being "friends," we know a lot of the same people so it's inevitable that I'll run into him. Doesn't mean we have to hang out, though. ***** I'm over it because I thought he was rude, but he did email me today. This what he said: "Well, I don't recall doing that. I believe that's a bit of harsh judgement you're passing on. If you were offended by something I did or felt ignored, my apologies. There were several other people I recognized in the lobby that evening who I also did not get the opportunity to greet. You were not the only one." It's nice of him to follow-up, but as Tara247 said, clearly I just wasn't on his radar that night at all. He still made a conscious decision not to say hi. That speaks volumes and I'm sorry I ever spent neural impulses trying to decipher this guy. He should have never asked me out or kept talking to me if he wasn't interested. NEXT!! Ew. he's acting like you were at the concert for him, like a groupie. He wasn't even playing, right? This guy is looking for attention. To feed his ego. Ignore.
truth_seeker Posted September 28, 2013 Posted September 28, 2013 I'm over it because I thought he was rude, but he did email me today. This what he said: "Well, I don't recall doing that. I believe that's a bit of harsh judgement you're passing on. If you were offended by something I did or felt ignored, my apologies. There were several other people I recognized in the lobby that evening who I also did not get the opportunity to greet. You were not the only one." He actually wrote this? Forget him. The way he worded this message suggests he has no interest in you - or he is trying to get under you skin to make it appear he never had interest. 1
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