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It's been a couple of weeks now sine I found out my exgf got engaged

5 months after our breakup. It just seems like I can't wake up from this nightmare. I'm still in such a daze....can't make sense of anything.

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It's been a couple of weeks now sine I found out my exgf got engaged

5 months after our breakup. It just seems like I can't wake up from this nightmare. I'm still in such a daze....can't make sense of anything.

 

Woah that's insanely fast!

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That's tough. Think of it this way, it was eventually gonna happen. Who cares if its 5 months or 5 years. F her. She no longer matters.

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she monkey branched from you to this new guy...who is a rebond that she is rushing in to... history has a way of repeating itself... so I can foresee this new relationship ending with her monkey branching to some new guy. So take solice in that fact.

 

Yeah, I've heard that before regarding monkey relationships where they can't let go of one relationship until they have another. I was that other branch not once, but twice I was stupid for falling for it once. The first time she was getting out of her first divorce and I told her to take some time and let the dust settle... But she told me she was out of her marriage well before the divorce (I met her while she was still married and I always felt that if I, or it could've been someone else, got her the motivation to finally leave her marriage. I told her I wanted no part of the reason she left). She threw it right back in my face saying I don't trust her when she tells me she was already mentally checked out. Anyway, we dated and it was never on solid footing. She blamed me for most of our first breakup. Then she started dating someone right after, that same week. That lasted for 7months. Then she came back to me before they broke up.

 

I was so happy to get a second chance with her, thinking the first breakup was my fault, that I didn't clearly think things through. Well things were great then out of no where, she told me she wanted some space, so she can get that "missing you" feeling back. I was never the same and couldn't be myself feeling she would leave again... And she did. Told me that there is something missing and broke up with me again.

 

Then BAM!! I found out she got engaged 5 months after our breakup. Augh!!!

 

I know I shouldn't care but WFT?!?!? You would think she would know better after her first marriage.

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