Is he interested?

[sweetjess1951]

I decided to try online dating. I've never done it before so I'm not familiar with the "online dating rules/ways". I just wanted to post about my recent contact with a guy I am interested in getting to know and seeing what everyone thinks.

 

I found this guy who lives about 2 12 hours from me. I initiated the first email asking what he did because it sounded like our professions were similar. At first, I'd see he was online but he wouldn't right back. I kind of wrote it off as him not being interested. About a day later, he wrote back. It wasn't A LOT but it definitely was the start of a conversation. I wrote back with a couple paragraphs.

 

After that, I'd see him online but he wouldn't respond to my last email.i started to think ,Abe he was just being polite and responding. But a few days after my last email, he sent one back that was literally 2 pages long (I didn't mind). What he had to say was really interesting and he ended it asking me a bunch of questions like what did I like to do? Why online dating? Etc. I responded back with some what of a lengthy email. That was Friday. He's been online throughout the weekend, but hasn't responded.

 

Should I just wait? Send another email asking how his weekend was? I mean, someone wouldn't spend the time writing that long of an email if they weren't interested, right?

[Dzlez]

If we don't reply to you after a day, it means we are not THAT interested.

[todreaminblue]

if they dotn reply after a day then reply then not then reply two pages long...he is playing games...negging i think the term is thrown around on here at love shack.....game player...up to you if you want to play...i wouldn't.....boring confusing ignorant cold selfish behavior ....not mature...dont reply to him, hit delete...find a guy who doesnt play games some one who deserves your time and to get to know you.....deb

[D-Lish]

I think it's safe to say that if someone is always online, and takes too long to respond to messages- they are either playing a game, have plenty of rods in the water, or aren't overly interested.

 

Don't send another email asking about his weekend. If you have to keep reminding him you are there in order to keep his attention- he's not worth your time.