Wimenknow79 Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 We dated briefly for a few months. It got intense quick. I made the mistake of rushing things and pushing things. His way of dealing with me was completely ignoring me. I made so many stupid mistakes. I chased him, became a text terrorist, and called. I acted desperate. He ignored me. I sent all the wrong text. I even sent an angry one which ended with him telling me to never contact him and he blocked me on FB. This happened during a few months. I really liked him and felt bad by his rejection. I tried Michael fiore's text your ex back. I waited 30 days. Then sent a. Across the bow text. Got no response. Waited a week and tried again no response. Waited a week and tried again no response. I waited 3 weeks tried 1 more time and know response. For those that don't know across the bow is casual requires no response. It simply means you saw something or was reminded of them in some way and decided to text them and hope they are doing well. You are not begging or pleading but keeping it vague. When that didn't work I reused it was hopeless and I made too many mistakes. I sent him a good bye message. I told him I understood why he felt how he felt, I owned what I did, I apologized, wished him the best, and said good bye! I let go! There was nothing left to do. You can't make someone care for you. 3 weeks later I got a weird at 2 in the morning from him. It said "And you asleep." Then he texted shortly after that " the drink I drank is about to put me to sleep." I got the messages in the morning. I figured he was drinking or they were meant for someone else. I waited a whole day and I surprisingly sent him "texting and drinking is a bad combo. You chose to walk out of my life and I respect your decision. I wish you well." Not sure if I sent the right text. I wanted to save face after acting pathetic. Is there a way to reverse the law of attraction and get a guy chasing you instead. Obviously he didn't text back. I wanted to seem strong and confident not needy and desperate. What do you guys think?
Sparkle304 Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 Awesome! Good for you. It shows you've gained self confidence.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 Michael fiore is the biggest load of dog turds walking gods green earth. Tries to spew this load of bull piss about how you wait a certain number of days and sending certain texts to get your ex interested again and all of it is rubbish. (I'm speaking in generalities and not against you poster) ....No text whatsoever really matters to the person IF THEY DONT WANT YOU BACK. They broke up for whatever reason and if they really don't want to date you again, text are futile. Trying to get a guy to chase you or doing whatever sounds nice and what we want in theory, but it doesn't work ESPECIALLY when its forced. I feel as though he KNEW what your agenda was when you texted him again and will probably for a LONG time. Just as you said you cant make someone care for you, the same goes for you cant make someone chase you. The sad reality of life at time. The text at whatever time in the AM probably meant nothing and your response was probably not needed. Either way, whats done is done. Go no contact and move forward. 1
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