Jadedbyluv Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 From my own personal experience, I've been know to drunk dial someone I'm interested in because my inhibition is gone. It's easier for me to express myself. Over the weekend, I got a drunk dial from the guy I've been seeing who I really like. We've been dating a little over a month. We talked for awhile and he was talking to me about a lot of stuff. I know he was drinking because he told me he was going out with friends that night. During the convo, he said he wanted to give us a shot and we're really good together. I asked him what he meant and he said dating and see where it goes. His response made me feel like he was talking about being exclusive. I haven't talked to him much since the phone call since he was busy all weekend. I want to know what he meant when we were talking or if he was just super drunk. The fact that he hasn't talked to me really makes me wonder.
Lani Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 Drunk words are sober thoughts. You asked him what he meant though, and he said 'dating and see where it goes'. It's pretty clear to me what he wants? I don't know how that could be put any more explicitly?
Author Jadedbyluv Posted August 26, 2013 Author Posted August 26, 2013 I guess I'm wondering how seriously I should take what he says. I rather hear it when he's sober. How do I approach the subject now?
Lani Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 I guess I'm wondering how seriously I should take what he says. I rather hear it when he's sober. How do I approach the subject now? What is the subject? I don't take what he said as meaning exclusivity. Do you need more information than he just wants to date and see where it goes? It's obvious he likes you. How long have you been dating already?
Lani Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 she's already been seeing the guy so what else could give it a shot mean. My drunk thoughts are quite different than my sober ones. I'm willing to bet that's just because you don't let them out when you're sober. When you're drunk you lose your inhibitions, and part of who you are underneath comes out to play. Those thoughts are there, we just tend to put the lid on them most of the time.
Author Jadedbyluv Posted August 26, 2013 Author Posted August 26, 2013 We have been dating for a little over a month.
Lani Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 We have been dating for a little over a month. I may just be misunderstanding, but I really don't see what there is to clarify. He said lets give it a go, you asked what he meant and he responded with 'date and see where it goes'. So I take from that that he really likes you and sees this going somewhere, but wants to continue with the way things are. I wouldn't read any more into it. But I'm not a guy, so I can't really know if there was an alternate meaning to it all that the bros would be able to understand better.
Author Jadedbyluv Posted August 26, 2013 Author Posted August 26, 2013 I guess I'm more worried about the whole drunk words are sober thoughts. Maybe he got liquid courage to open up to me but actions speak louder than words. He hasn't made any initiative since the phone call. I tried talking to him yesterday and he said he had to go bc he wasn't feeling well. I told him I hoped he felt better and to let me know if he still wanted to get together tonight. I haven't heard from him since. I don't think he lied about being sick. But why open up to me if you aren't going to follow through? He has to make an effort or back up his words.
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