truckingtaz Posted November 12, 2004 Posted November 12, 2004 I lied to my girlfriend and almost cost her some stuff. I made promise to take care of her and I couldn't at first but know i am working at that i got another job. We had a great start and stated to one another that we didn't think we could love someone like we love one another. I asked for her for givens and to give me a second change. Do you think she might since our love was very strong in the start.I'm also hurting knowing that I hurt her and I lied to her and may lose her. WE also said we were that one person that everyone has in life and now I might lose her. How can I change her mind and get her back?
bluechocolate Posted November 12, 2004 Posted November 12, 2004 I lied to my girlfriend and almost cost her some stuff. What does that mean? I made promise to take care of her and I couldn't at first but know i am working at that i got another job. Doesn't she have a job? How can I change her mind and get her back? Change her mind about what? Didn't you say that she gave you a 2nd chance?
Author truckingtaz Posted November 12, 2004 Author Posted November 12, 2004 Originally posted by truckingtaz I lied to my girlfriend and almost cost her some stuff. I made promise to take care of her and I couldn't at first but know i am working at that i got another job. We had a great start and stated to one another that we didn't think we could love someone like we love one another. I asked for her for givens and to give me a second change. Do you think she might since our love was very strong in the start.I'm also hurting knowing that I hurt her and I lied to her and may lose her. WE also said we were that one person that everyone has in life and now I might lose her. How can I change her mind and get her back? she almost lost car.
Author truckingtaz Posted November 12, 2004 Author Posted November 12, 2004 Originally posted by bluechocolate I lied to my girlfriend and almost cost her some stuff. What does that mean? I made promise to take care of her and I couldn't at first but know i am working at that i got another job. Doesn't she have a job? How can I change her mind and get her back? Change her mind about what? Didn't you say that she gave you a 2nd chance? She almost lost her car because of me. I now have a second job to make us extra money and get ahead and hopefuly move on and spend our lives together.
bluechocolate Posted November 12, 2004 Posted November 12, 2004 lied and hurting about it Post: 1 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?threadid=51396 to answer question. Yes she has a job and we live together. I told her she could leave her old job and I would take care of her. I failed at first but know I have second job. I am also trying to get her back right now unsure if she wants me. I lied to her and almost cost her to lose her car. I lied about money and when asked I confessed and I know that was wrong why I did don't know. So now she is hurt because of what I did. I want her to give me a second change and let us move on and build a stronger bond and hopefully spend our lives together. I don't think you should be working two jobs to support your "girl friend" & she should be making her own car payments or sell the car. If she doesn't want you because you can't afford to keep her or make her car payments for her then in my opinion she's not worth the trouble anyway. Let her go. (p.s. - you should continue to post in the same thread - otherwise it's very confusing & you won't get many responses - cheers)
Author truckingtaz Posted November 13, 2004 Author Posted November 13, 2004 Its not that i can't afford her or the car. its i said i could and we really didn't plan it the way we should have. And than I lied about it and than she confronted me and confessed. that hurt her really bad that is the worst thing to do to her she said in the being. I had sad sorry and really want a second change to prove to her i can be thew person she though i was.
Recommended Posts