Demoralised_10 Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 Posted a couple of weeks ago, was in an intense 3 month relationship with a girl who lavished me with love, affection and passion throughout, we text and spoke on the phone everyday. She said she loved me, that this is forever and she doesn't want anyone else etc, wanted to marry me and have my kids etc.. Yes I know things went very fast very soon. Out of the blue she finishes it, no real reason, just her feelings have changed and she had 'small' doubts. The day before she said she loved me! I took the advice in here and went NC, what helped initially was she went on holiday for a week to 'clear her head'. When she returned she has taken to messaging me almost daily, just breadcrumbs, how she cares about me etc.. There is no one else in the picture, she told me that. There has been no animosity from either of us I haven't been needy or desperate and have not mentioned the break up. However, I don't know what she wants? Texting all the time. I want to write one last text to say I love you very much and am here for you and that whatever doubts you may have had can they not be worked upon if everything you said about me us is true? Leave it like that and go back to NC. Ultimately I was getting along fine being NC whilst she was abroad. I don't want to have the knowledge in my head that I didn't fight and let the thoughts out there, but it's stopping me from trying to move on and I miss her so much. Your advise will be most appreciated.
Soat Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 (edited) Totally wrong approach. Tell her youre trying to respect her decision to end the relationship , and please now respect your need for healing time apart so you can move on. She knows all that other stuff you're planning to text already. You're just going to look desperate if you text that again which is not attractive to women at all Edited August 25, 2013 by Soat
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