staryeyes Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 When mm and I got together we were both looking to replace what we were missing. He and w had not slept with her for 5 years. My marriage was just about over. As time passed. Feelings changed and he told me I was not looking to fall in love but it definitely. Happened very unexpected. I knew I loved him but was not going. To say so first. So we bothloved each other. Fast forward 1 year. Mm is in therapy to stop the madness as he calls it. I am the single ap now and he says he struggles between his want. And need too be with me and his feeling of obligation, and his fear of losing his 8 year olld daughtr because w threatened to keep her from him. He says he. Needs to learn to seperate love from obligation and fear. Why does it seem loving us complicates life for them.
MissBee Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 Oh and is it possible he got scared off from you when you became single? You changed the dynamic on him. You're no longer safe. I thought the same as I read this.
Author staryeyes Posted August 25, 2013 Author Posted August 25, 2013 Yes I do have a daughter 10. He knew when we met my divorce was coming. It hasent scared him off he's more attentive then ever. He texts me all day every day all day not 20 mins go by that we don't hear from one another. He struggles with his want to leave and be with me and his feeling of what he calls obligation.
Author staryeyes Posted August 26, 2013 Author Posted August 26, 2013 I wish I could answer hat question. I don't know the answer I love him like. I have loved no one I love him like I have loved no one else including husband. I have seen effort he got a new job so he can afford to pay what he anticipates he will have to pay. He has also has started working with a Theripest. So I have seen movement. I don't really know but he does thank me for being patient all the time.
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