8yearsgone Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 My ex just called me. We broke up like a month ago and I last seen him about 2 weeks ago. He's in his home country now, he was always planning a visit but decided to bump it up after breaking up with me. He also made suggestions like he maybe wouldn't come back to Canada again. So this is what happened, last time I seen him, I let him use my computer to book his ticket. I had made a list of reasons to stay away from him to get me through the breakup because I was devastated and saved it on my desktop. It was a brutal list basically listing all of his bad qualities, traits and why we aren't good together, just things i would never ever say to him. Well, he opened, saw it and emailed himself the list. He just told me this now on the phone. So he calls and says, hi, how are you? Are you happy now? And then just like small talk, then tells me I saw that list and I read it all the time. So I said "is there anything on there that is untrue? he says "no, it's all true". I said well if you want to make a list about me, go ahead and he said "no I can't, you're perfect". And now he says he will be coming back to Canada. Like wtf?? He broke my heart and I was just about ready to forget him, and he has to call me now??
Nicoleiia Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 That was a nice thing he said about the list. But, even still, we know they were breadcrumbs. Tread lightly because we all know what dumpers do when you go NC. Try to stay NC and don't fall for these sweet nothings he's gonna give you. Keep re-reading that list and move on.
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