welove Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 Honestly, my way of dealing with a breakup is to go out and have fun with my friends. Wallowing in my pain at home just makes me feel worse so I enjoy the moments that make me happy (and forget about the situation for a split second). I can dream of a future where I will be happy again. It's my way of dealing with things, to remember that there is good in my life and to hang out with all the people who are a part of it. Doesn't mean I don't feel like I just took a sledge hammer in the heart. But this is just my reaction to things, so I understand her side. In terms of being friends with her, she's not going to be as big a part of your life as before. You need time to heal and find out if there is still space for her there and she's doing the same.
joe86 Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 It's only my 2 cents, but I've come to think that if a woman breaks up with you and it all seems quite spur of the moment, she's actually thought a lot about it and you just haven't noticed, either because you're heads elsewhere or she's just good at hiding it. People generally know how to help each other out, so the things said at the end and after can often be said more in support than anything else. I think the worst part is the fact that this is all generally common sense or how we all act with people. But when its someone you've loved, you like to think that things become more open and you're more aware of what is happening in your life.
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