nobody123 Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 (edited) im feeling bad!! i was in some kind of relationship but we were never bf's, we were in contact for like 1 year, and we met a few times (we are in different cities) and well things happened, we talked everyday after that (chat, phone, etc), but two months ago he called me to tell me that he is going out with someone, that they have plans for life blabla (just 2 weeks before this event he wanted me to be with him, but i was not available, so this new person must be someone he recently met) anyway, he told me we could still be friends blabla.. then a few weeks later i did not received any call from him or any kind of contact, so i called and told him to say good bye and that if we are not gonna talk anymore atleast say good bye and good luck, he told me "thats ok, blabla", i felt like he didnt minded too much the thing is, i cant stop thinking about him, should i talk to him again? i know it would be humiliating after i was the one who called to say good bye , but i think part of the reason he found other person is that most of the time i could not be with him , let say i wasnt idependent enough , but now i finished college and im starting an independant life, so that would not be a problem anymore, but i dont know if i should contact him or no... well i know the most probable answer is "dont do it, he is over it and you should get over it too", but i cant help myself lol! Edited August 25, 2013 by nobody123
Philosoraptor Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 No, you should not contact him at all. You will meet a lot of great guys out there that are closer and not as more reliable. He jumped to someone else and was likely looking around for quite awhile before that. Just take care of yourself now and continue working on your own growth.
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