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missingu Established Member

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This Guy started talking to me on fb after I told a mutual friend(who kept asking me for weeks if i would date him) I would date him.he and I had never chatted on fb before this

 

Then when I saw him he made out with another girl right in front of me.

And looked at me a lot all night

 

The next day as soon as I was on fb he started chatting to me again.. He liked my status too

 

It's clear he wasn't interested or he wouldn't get with the other girl right?? So my question is why keep chatting to me. What is there to gain from it??

mammasita Established Member

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Um, he's trying to see how weak and how much of a dumb ass you are and if you'll fall for his BS.

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PlumPrincess Established Member

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Confront him. Ask him, what he wants from you, because he is confusing you with his actions.

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Ninjainpajamas Established Member

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The guys an idiot and is just simply going to play the both of you...don't be a clueless girl and an eventual doormat, this guy is looking for anyone to take seriously with that kind of behavior...read the behavior, don't be a fool...if you ask him what he wants it's going to be vague and "I just want to get to know you kind of thing"....you can't demand anything, you're not even together he just talked to you..this is a small obstacle to avoid with you....you're interested and he knows it so he's just going to mess with your head but don't think the guy is going to change or be exclusive with you...read the writing on the wall...would a guy that was interested in you make out with a girl in front of you? seriously? and then you'd actually still go after the guy and wonder if he's interested in you? HA!

 

And don't live your life on FB.

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stillafool Established Member

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It's clear he wasn't interested or he wouldn't get with the other girl right?? So my question is why keep chatting to me. What is there to gain from it??

 

Because he's a player and playing with you. He knows you want him and will sleep with you two but he doesn't want you as a gf.

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RedRobin Established Member

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Doesn't matter. Guy is not worth worrying about.

 

Delete him from your FB and don't give guys like this the time of day.

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StanMusial Established Member

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He's just playing around, using you for his amusement.

 

I know a guy that would do stuff like this... he would invite a girl out with the crew and then hook up with a different girl right in front of her. I remember seeing that girl sitting at the steering wheel in her car, crying her eyes out. And the thing is, she still tried to get with him a couple of weeks later.

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missingu Established Member

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Bad news...

 

I failed..and it doesn't feel great.

 

Went out again with the group. Had a great time..and we made out for a long while. He asked me if I had got with anyone else to which I replied no.. And he said "you can't get with anyone else when you like me can you?" After that he started kissing me. He then told me he'd call me and he hasn't and I can't say I'm surprised..

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Why do you let this guy kiss on you when it is obvious he is just playing with your head? Show him [your] self esteem by laughing at his silly self and moving on. He's a jerk and will never be a boyfriend.

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