Is there still a chance?

[katniss]

Me and my ex boyfriend were together for 3 years. My family knows about him and they are even close. He introduced me to his family, too. I was the first girl he let his family know he has a relationship with. He treated me like a total princess.

 

He really loved me, I can say. Effort here, effort there. He never missed a thing to make me happy. There's this something that made me a bit cold to him. Every year, he has this so called OTHER WOMAN. He'll eventually say sorry and I still accept him. I got insecure to his other girls because of this. Honestly, I became a nagger, I always get mad at him, I even treat him as if he's not existing.

 

But I LOVE HIM. I just want to feel he's really into me. Last August 3, 2013, he broke up with me. He told me he has to focus on his studies but I did not believe him. A week after, he then told me that studies really isn't the reason why he broke up with me. He got tired of all the fights and all that. Then, I somehow believed it. After a week again, I saw him with another girl even my friends saw it. It hurts because he has moved on already plus he dont bother checking up on me. No messages, no hi hello, not even a poke or whatever. During that time when I was asking him why is he dating that girl, he still makes me feel I am special.

 

Then, I told his friends what happened, he got mad because he thought I am destroying his image. Now, he's really mad. He even told me if they get together, he'll introduce her to his family. Is there still a chance for the both of us? Is it a rebound relationship? Is he really serious with that girl? How will I win him back? Are they working on it while we are still together? Has he really moved on? Thank you for reading and replying. I'm just new here. I will appreciate you so much

Edited August 25, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[blotter]

I dont think there is really any chance. Even if you did, there would be no trust. What's the point of a relationship if there is no trust.

[Soat]

Frankly, for whatever reason he didn't want to date you anymore. He was mostly upfront about it. I know it hurts, but you need to just grieve and move on.

[katniss]

hi @blotter and @soat, thank you. Just what I needed today. Do you think it is a rebound relationship between them? Has he really moved on?

[Soat]

No idea. And do you care? Think about the fact he isn't good for you. Let your logic control your brain addiction. If I read your post correctly it seems like he serially cheated on you? If so read my guide below.