napy666 Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 This is what this one guy told me he says he doesn't mind being single but hates being alone and doesn't know if he wants to date me or not. What should I do?
Maleficent Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 He is going to hang out/sleep with you until he finds someone he is more attracted to. Then he'll dump you. So screw him 3
Author napy666 Posted August 25, 2013 Author Posted August 25, 2013 Now he's telling me he's scared of loosing me once we do become a couple. Ugh this is driving me crazy.
Author napy666 Posted August 25, 2013 Author Posted August 25, 2013 Scratch that this guy wasn't interested in me so it is his loss. I will find someone who is truly into me. 4
StanMusial Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 This is what this one guy told me he says he doesn't mind being single but hates being alone and doesn't know if he wants to date me or not. What should I do? What a charmer! 1
carhill Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 This is what this one guy told me he says he doesn't mind being single but hates being alone and doesn't know if he wants to date me or not. What should I do? Avoid this pursuer of casual sex unless that's your focus. Doesn't mind being single - likes being unattached Can't be alone - tug at those emotions, superficially, but the deeper message is admittance of insecurity. Not sure about dating you - doesn't want to date you When a man is into you and wants to date you, there will be no ambiguity or games or complicated language. Good luck. 2
Leigh 87 Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 Sorry, but he was basically telling you that he was not very attracted to you and he does not think that highly of you as a person or think you're that cool to talk to, since he gets lonely yet still does not know if he wants to be with you (even though he is lonely). There are men who will think you're attractive and a great girl, so divert your energy into waiting for one of those men to come along, and forget he men who are not that into you.
Author napy666 Posted August 26, 2013 Author Posted August 26, 2013 Sorry, but he was basically telling you that he was not very attracted to you and he does not think that highly of you as a person or think you're that cool to talk to, since he gets lonely yet still does not know if he wants to be with you (even though he is lonely). There are men who will think you're attractive and a great girl, so divert your energy into waiting for one of those men to come along, and forget he men who are not that into you. Trust me I plan too.
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