Csmith224422 Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 So she lied to me about breaking up with her ex-boyfriend and went out with both of us for a month and a half. Then broke up with her ex-boyfriend to go out with me exclusively. Then 4 months later she started seeing both of us again for a month and then broke up with me to return to him. I didint find all of this out until recently. She admitted to it all AFTER I spoke to her ex-boyfriend. She started to go out with him again but now tells me it ended with him and she's trying to distance herself from him. I still love her despite all of this. I've been LC for quite sometime and can't take it anymore. When we were together we talk about kids and starting a family. We had plans to move in together. I feel depressed. I used to count on her when I was depressed and she would be there for me and support me. I don't have that anymore and I feel so lonely and sad. I know everyone will tell me to move on. But I've only fell in love once in my life and it was with her. How can I just forgt about her? What do I do if I still want her in my life? How do I get he back?
Dez Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 So she lied to me about breaking up with her ex-boyfriend and went out with both of us for a month and a half. Then broke up with her ex-boyfriend to go out with me exclusively. Then 4 months later she started seeing both of us again for a month and then broke up with me to return to him. I didint find all of this out until recently. She admitted to it all AFTER I spoke to her ex-boyfriend. She started to go out with him again but now tells me it ended with him and she's trying to distance herself from him. I still love her despite all of this. I've been LC for quite sometime and can't take it anymore. When we were together we talk about kids and starting a family. We had plans to move in together. I feel depressed. I used to count on her when I was depressed and she would be there for me and support me. I don't have that anymore and I feel so lonely and sad. I know everyone will tell me to move on. But I've only fell in love once in my life and it was with her. How can I just forgt about her? What do I do if I still want her in my life? How do I get he back? same with me. i'm hella depressed. me and my girl used to talk about starting a family and all that..now shes out of my life. i've been asking for months how to get her back, no one has the answers. it's hard trying to let go.
hellischrome Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 If you are depressed go see a therapist - which is what you could have done before instead of relying on her.
Soat Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 Dear lord really !? A cheating liar you love! Wow. How was she with you as support while dating all these guys?? Move on she's horriblr
Author Csmith224422 Posted August 25, 2013 Author Posted August 25, 2013 I know what she did was messed up but I still feel the same way for her. She was with that other guy for 3 years. And met me out of nowhere. You don't meet the people you want to meet when you want to meet them. I think this could work. But I begged and pleased the first month of the break up and I think that harmed my chances. Now I've been NC but her ex called me the other week to tell to leave her alone (which I had been doin!) so that seems weird. I texte her to leave me alone and to tell him to leave me alone too) and she called to apologize and said she's not with him and is trying to distance herself from him and he's calling because he believes that she ran back to me. She said she was just emotionally connected to him but wants to leave. I feel like this could work but I don't want to be too pushy. What do i do?
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