Is he gone for good?

[BellaB]

Here is how our last text session with before he stopped communicating with me yesterday:

 

HIM: abt me

HIM: you still care abt me

ME: It doesn't matter what I feel obviously, u made the choice by disrespecting me

HIM: how am i disrespecting you? i thought abt it whn she got here and was going to talk to you anyway

ME: Now all cards on the table, u will get the child in April, u will not see me ever again not even in court because Im giving up rights to u

HIM: no you wont bc ill give the child up for adoption.

ME: WHy would u givw uo my child for adoption? are u crazy?

HIM: yes. i am. you ask for the baby and you want to throw it to me? not happening so ill give the child to a better family

ME: In that case,, if u dont it why did u do it?

ME: if u dont want it, why did u do it

HIM: at least by then; the court will lock me up for child support

ME: Im not filing on u because I dont even want to see u in court either

HIM: you said you want my baby, you dont want to wait until 30

ME: Yeah before I knew what type of person u were

HIM: thn like i said. the baby will go to adoption to a good. and better home

HIM: bc you made me tat way so say goodbye pls

ME: then I will keep it with me instead and u will just be an absent father. U have 2 others to worry about anyways

HIM: thn say goodbye.

ME: why do i have to

HIM: bc if you dnt my nxt step is to file harrassment charges against yoi

ME: so im harrassing u?

HIM: yes you are. you didnt even give me a chance to tell you so at least i knew you werent going to be patient enough w me

HIM: now pls say goodbyr

HIM: last chance

ME: Supposedly u switching it up for her saying I was harrassing u when we been talking all this week. Stop lying so much to get what u want

HIM: say good bye

ME: goodbye

[berkeley1987]

we don't know the back story. how can we tell?

[BellaB]

we don't know the back story. how can we tell?

 

We had gotten in an argument because his ex-girlfriend out of a 6 yr relationship came over to visit his sister, whom she is bestfriends with.

[hellischrome]

and so why on earth is it your problem?

[Salvatore85]

WTF is wrong with the two of you? Why would you do this to an innocent child? It really reads like you two are fighting over the baby you have together and the immaturity the two of you display is ridiculous. Whining and bitching when a baby who never asked to be here is far more important than either of you.

[jesse93]

This relationship looks like a terrible relationship IMO, from that small text conversation it seems like the guy you were with is a piece of crap, and I hope you give that baby a good life he doesn't deserve to be in a foster home it is your responsibility you're the one who went off and got pregnant with a douche bag, take care of the kid and work on becoming a better person get rid of this guy also, I don't know how old you two are but he seems like he would be a pretty bad father anyway.

[Ireallydontknow]

That log is so hard to read with all that garbage text speak. I thought posting logs was against the rules too?

[whichwayisup]

We had gotten in an argument because his ex-girlfriend out of a 6 yr relationship came over to visit his sister, whom she is bestfriends with.

 

This makes no sense Bella. His sister's best friend is his ex..That has nothing to do with you.

[BellaB]

This makes no sense Bella. His sister's best friend is his ex..That has nothing to do with you.

 

Yeah, but if he (was) in a relationship with me, why would he have her come over anyways and not leave. That was very disrespectful to me. It doesn't matter though because now I'm leaving his behind for a MM. He can have his ex, they deserve eachother.

[Midnight_Princess]

...Im actually hoping you do let someone adopt the baby.