berkeley1987 Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 so i was bored looking through my ex girlfriends tumblr, and she wrote something about relationships a couple of years ago.... "Being in a relationship, It’s not about the labels or becoming official. It’s about getting to know someone well enough to develop genuine feelings for them. It’s about being understanding and forgiving when situations are at their worst. It’s about loving someone, not for what they have to offer but who they are. It’s never about blaming your significant other for not treating you like how you want to be treated, it’s about how hard they try to keep you around." so i reblogged this, and added "i wish i could have experience this! -_____-" the reason being is that this is exactly what she didn't do with me, what a hypocrite. i was the one who did exactly this. when she see's this, how do think she would react? is it wrong of me to reblog it and say that? 2
bentleychic Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 It's passive aggressive and not worth your time. 3
Salvatore85 Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 It's kind of petty. If you treated her great and people know it they will laugh about her post regardless. 1
Author berkeley1987 Posted August 25, 2013 Author Posted August 25, 2013 Where's the part where you "owned" her? I don't see it? just called her out for being a hypocrite. 1
flitzanu Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 she's probably going to see it and want to take you back, and question why she ever left the relationship. 3
Author berkeley1987 Posted August 25, 2013 Author Posted August 25, 2013 she's probably going to see it and want to take you back, and question why she ever left the relationship. seriously dude?
barky2 Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 Id write smh... But lll write it all out..shaking my head. Barky
crederer Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 Yah I dunno if that was worth anything man. It's like when people on facebook post all these inspirational quotes about being strong and living life and stuff like that, these are all the people that are living in depression and living the opposite lives of these inspiration quotes. Her quote was probably along the same lines. She probably already knows she's not like the way her message sounded but WANTS to be that way. 1
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 so i was bored looking through my ex girlfriends tumblr, and she wrote something about relationships a couple of years ago.... "Being in a relationship, It’s not about the labels or becoming official. It’s about getting to know someone well enough to develop genuine feelings for them. It’s about being understanding and forgiving when situations are at their worst. It’s about loving someone, not for what they have to offer but who they are. It’s never about blaming your significant other for not treating you like how you want to be treated, it’s about how hard they try to keep you around." so i reblogged this, and added "i wish i could have experience this! -_____-" the reason being is that this is exactly what she didn't do with me, what a hypocrite. i was the one who did exactly this. when she see's this, how do think she would react? is it wrong of me to reblog it and say that? YEAH!!! YOU TOTALLY GOT HER!!!!!! All you did was make you look incredibly weak and stalker-ish by looking at her stuff from years ago. Was unnecessary, petty, and just plain dumb. Bad move man.....bad move 3
Sugarkane Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 I've defiantly felt like doing something like this before. Some of The utter BS they come out with!
Author berkeley1987 Posted August 27, 2013 Author Posted August 27, 2013 so i was on my ex gf's tumblr and she posted this video. its about how a guy's brain is divided. how one side is horny and the other is calm.. just watch it. so anyways, my ex was always saying "i don't know who you are!" she thinks i'm a player but knows i'm a good man and trusts me. i told her i used to be like a player in high school, but that was years ago and i'm not like that anymore. she says she can't find it in her to believe me. the reason being is because i follow attractive girls on instagram.. one of them i used to have history with. she gets extremely jealous, but i say instagram doesn't mean anything. i told her she was my number one and only one. i asked her to let me show you who i really am, but then she broke up with me about 4 months ago. say's its too late. but now since she posted this and we've been in n/c...would you think she's hinting something like in the end of video?
Simon Phoenix Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 It probably has nothing to do with you at all. And if you are following your ex on social media, you aren't in NC. Stop doing that. 4
reddragon588 Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 I think you are seeing this the way you want to see it. Women can be subtle, but they aren't that subtle. She isn't creating social media messages just for you unless you are tagged in it. If she was trying to send you a message she would have addressed you by name. If she wanted to give you a second chance, she would be direct about it and say exactly that. I would suggest not following her on social media. You will still feel a connection to her as long as you do. You need to move away from that, because unless she specifically says I want to get back together, you need to move forward as though it won't happen. It's better to prepare for reconciliation to never happen and then have it happen, then to prepare for reconciliation and not happen.
Author berkeley1987 Posted August 27, 2013 Author Posted August 27, 2013 It probably has nothing to do with you at all. And if you are following your ex on social media, you aren't in NC. Stop doing that. she posts things about me all the time. its rare for her to post a cartoon.
Simon Phoenix Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 she posts things about me all the time. its rare for her to post a cartoon. Once again, stop following her on social media!!! 1
Author berkeley1987 Posted August 27, 2013 Author Posted August 27, 2013 Once again, stop following her on social media!!! i thought no contact was not actually contacting her. i blocked her on all social media except for tumblr, because its no likes shes posting pictures or updates on her life.
reddragon588 Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 i thought no contact was not actually contacting her. i blocked her on all social media except for tumblr, because its no likes shes posting pictures or updates on her life. You still have contact with her via tumblr, even if it is indirect and one way contact. You know what she's thinking about, or at least what she's thinking about publishing on tumblr. Yes, it is contact. And it's clearly getting to you! You wouldn't be worried or thinking about this if you weren't checking her page. 2
Simon Phoenix Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 i thought no contact was not actually contacting her. i blocked her on all social media except for tumblr, because its no likes shes posting pictures or updates on her life. No Contact is depriving yourself of any sort of insight into her life. That means no talking, no calling, no texting, no facebooking, no Twitter, no tumblr, no asking about her to her friends or family, nothing at all. Because you violated it (again), you have yourself twisted into a pretzel about something innocuous that likely has nothing to do with you whatsoever. If she really wanted you to see it, she'd send it to you or tag you. You really need to stop retarding your recovery process. 2
JDPT Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 i thought no contact was not actually contacting her. i blocked her on all social media except for tumblr, because its no likes shes posting pictures or updates on her life. That's like saying "oh yeah I still smoke crack but I swear to you I'm not inhaling..." You need to commit fully to NC, you are either in or out, there is not halfway to do it.
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