Notry412 Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 So my x girlfriend of only a week ago has been rough and broke up with me on my birthday, however all week I went NC and she has been sending me a couple message. Today I got one that says she wants to still have sex but not be with me in any other way. I don't know if this is a way back in? or if she really just wants a couple times more of sex and that's it. I keep telling myself I would be cool with it because the sex was really good. (she said the best she ever had.) I am just afraid of her seeing someone else while this is all going on. I am not sure I could have sex with her then see her out on a date the next night. Any thoughts?
BigGirlPantiesOn Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 My thought is wondering where your dignity is? Dumped on your birthday and she wants to f*** you only...and you're seriously considering it? 1
barky2 Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 Man to man, if she treated u like shat do the same. Hit it and tell her she has to leave because u have other plans. Can't say I've ever been vindictive or bitter to a ex before . Barky 1
Author Notry412 Posted August 24, 2013 Author Posted August 24, 2013 Yea I guess it does sound pretty bad, I just missed having sex with her too. I am sure it will end badly tho, it just threw me off because I didn't expect it at all.
Author Notry412 Posted August 24, 2013 Author Posted August 24, 2013 That's what my roommate said. He thought I should do it but be really cut and dry about it. He told me if I did I have to be very vindictive or she will get all the power and screw me over good. I just don't know I have never been vindictive, but she has me thinking about it.
crederer Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 Ya I sleep with a couple of my ex gf's after break up. I usually just do really degrading things and generally put no effort into being nice to em' yet they continue to sleep with me. I also completely ignore them until I want sex. They both screwed me over in the past so I guess it's my turn. The one even said she feels like I'm using her cause I don't do anything but sleep with her then leave. I responded with "that's because I am using you". She called me a week later looking for sex. Easy sex, go for it. Don't ask her out after because she's told you in no uncertain terms she doesn't want it. So have sex with her until you find someone else. 1
Author Notry412 Posted August 24, 2013 Author Posted August 24, 2013 Yea that sounds like what I am going to do, she really hurt me but feels like she put me back in power, and I feel like I should treat her like she has basically treated me since the beginning, with no respect.
bubbaganoosh Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 Pull the opposite on her. Text her back in bold letters and say this "OH YEAH! JUST WANT ME FOR YOUR OWN SELFISH PLEASURE! WHAT DO YOU THINK I AM? A PIECE OF MEAT THAT YOU CAN HAVE A SLICE ANY TIME YOU WANT! I WANT FLOWERS, CANDY, LIT CANDLES ROMANCTIC MUSIC! I'M SICK OF YOU WOMEN THINKING THAT YOU CAN JUST TAKE TAKE TAKE AND GIVE NOTHING BACK! IT'S IT'S............DISCUSTING!
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