gypsy25 Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 I have a quick question about boyfriend/girlfriend ettiquite......My question is how often do you call your girlfriend/boyfriend? I mean like every day, every few days, every hour, every week, etc.? Also, how often do you see them in the same context? I am just trying to guage to see how "normal" my contact with my boyfriend is in comparison to other relationships. Thanks!
Jilly10340 Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Well, about the calling thing, I like to hear from my boyfriend at least once a day About seeing them....I guess it depends. I went out with a guy that i saw everyday and i went out with another guy who i only saw two or three times a week. I guess it depends on how much you WANT to see each other.
Author gypsy25 Posted November 11, 2004 Author Posted November 11, 2004 Do you ever call your boyfriend if he doesn't call you? Also, do you ever call your boyfriend if you want to see him or does he always initiate contact?
Jilly10340 Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 If he didn't call me I'd probably call him but that hasn't happened yet. He usually im's me as soon as he gets up in the morning while I'm at work. I always let him initiate contact if he wants to see me. If I had my choice I would see him everyday but I don't know if he's the same. So I figure if he wants to see me he'll ask. So....I always let him ask first. I would try to see him at least every other day though at the least.
tiki Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 My fiance and I see each other daily. We'd die if we didn't. We are constantly in contact, whether by phone, text message, emails, whatever. We may talk several times in one day only to see one another right after work. We wed in one month.
Artifact Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 When I first started dating my fiance we agreed (to take the pressure off) that we didn't HAVE to be in contact every single day. But, that didn't really last. So, pretty much from the start we have seen each other daily or at LEAST talked on the phone. But, I'll bet it has been less than 30 days in over 2 years we haven't seen each other (mainly because of traveling), and maybe 6(?) days we haven't spoken at all.
Naive Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 It has varied it each relationship. Mostly it's always a 50/50 thing. Whoever thinks about each other first There was this one guy who really irritated me, lets say I would say, "I'll call you", but forget he would not call me and once I would call him and say, "why did you not call me", he would say, "uh uh, it was your turn" WTF!!!! It's not a freakin' game. You call then I call. It's about feeling free to call or to not call, whatever you feel!
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