The myth of "Women should initiate more..."

[xxoo]

How about say i prefer the man approaches and end it there? degrading men who dont approach shows a lack of character

 

That wouldn't explain the reason behind it. The reason is important if you are going to understand why you aren't succeeding, and hopefully have more success in the future.

[PJKino]

That wouldn't explain the reason behind it. The reason is important if you are going to understand why you aren't succeeding, and hopefully have more success in the future.

 

I see so being overly harsh is only to teach us males who dont approach women what were doing wrong:rolleyes:

 

Please its trashy no matter how you try to spin it..

[jma500]

That wouldn't explain the reason behind it. The reason is important if you are going to understand why you aren't succeeding, and hopefully have more success in the future.

 

What makes you think you know the reason why a man doesn't approach? You do not know him so you wouldn't know his reasons. Assuming he is gutless and/or fearful is not helpful.

[tbf]

but because I am smart enough to know my approach would not be accepted.

 

What makes you think you know the reason why a man doesn't approach? You do not know him so you wouldn't know his reasons. Assuming he is .... fearful is not helpful.

I'd say the first quoted post was steeped in fear of rejection and insecurity.

[xxoo]

What makes you think you know the reason why a man doesn't approach? You do not know him so you wouldn't know his reasons. Assuming he is gutless and/or fearful is not helpful.

 

That is how women see a man who won't approach women. We can't read your minds, but we do interpret behavior.

[PJKino]

Hmm, you lot seem to have taken a fair bit of offense to my "gutless" comment. I can't help but think I struck a nerve there. Still, I stand by my original statement, harsh or not.

 

If, as a man, you sit on your hands, whine about being dateless yet say you don't approach women and in fact, that it is they who should approach you, you are a coward and cowardice is about the least sexy quality a man can have.

 

I dont think women should approach me theyres no logical reason to approach my ugly ass:laugh: i simply think calling men who are on the shy side cowards is a little much especially from people who are afraid to do the same thing

[jma500]

That is how women see a man who won't approach women. We can't read your minds, but we do interpret behavior.

 

Incorrectly it seems.

[William]

As the focus of the thread has apparently shifted from discussing a myth to discussing the character and posting habits of fellow members, we'll end it before others have their posting privileges suspended. Thanks for your participation.