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Found M's hair clip and it delights, devistates me


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Is it the worst when you find one of their things that somehow got into your bag or at your house or your pocket for your car. When you try to remember how did I get this woman's hair clip. How was such a simple shiny piece of metal ever so pretty to me just because it was on that person's head.

 

M would wear that in her hair to keep it out of her face looks down to do her math.

 

I wonder what of mine inadvertently ended up with her.

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Strangely having this clip has made me feel much better for some reason.

 

For a little while I was feeling like the good times I had with her may have been all in my head. Like a long dream or delusion. Like I was a totally crazy horrible person who had never been liked.

 

Somehow having this physical evidence, occular proof, has made me feel much much better about not having her.

 

The feeling like one was never ...loved by anyone... really is that much worse than the feeling of having been so liked and maybe loved then having it end. It was something, now it's nothing, and it is so likely that it never will be a again. That's life and one can only go forward.

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Wow, what a great attitude!!! I would be depressed for days if I found something like that in my house.

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