Sweetiepie24 Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 (edited) I was with my ex for 6 months, I was his first girlfriend in 3 years. He broke with me over a few little things, and he thought I didn't trust him. We were long distance. Now 1.5 months after he broke up with me he has a new girlfriend, someone who he actually said "needs to keep her knickers on" as she has slept with the majority of the men in their town. He recently overdosed, as an attempted suicide about 3 weeks ago and he says he is with her because she helped him through it! I wanted to help him through it but I couldn't as we had a bad break up. I reminded him of what he said about her before, and he just warned me that I was going to push him over the edge again. What makes it worse is that I lost my virginity to this man. I am loyal and honest yet he chooses to be with someone like that. How do I move past this? I have said some very cruel things to him about her, which he managed to ignore after I told him she should be making him happy. Shoułd I apologise for this even though I meant it? I feel low that he would xhoose that over me. Edited August 24, 2013 by Sweetiepie24
Soat Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 So you're in love with a drug addict? Really? YOu're better off without that mess. MOve on. 1
theonlyjuan Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 Rebound probably, he clearly has problems. When I broke up with an ex I went mad with the drink and drugs and go involved with a girl I am totally grossed out by now. Some people are a good match on a certain level. Maybe she understands him and he feels she's on the same wave length as him. You really shouldn't care! You already know your better than her so don't beat yourself up, I'm sure everyone else knows it too. Worry about yourself. Leave him to his new "GF" Don't talk to him anymore Don't change how you are, nice and loyal girls are becoming rare.
Author Sweetiepie24 Posted August 24, 2013 Author Posted August 24, 2013 So you're in love with a drug addict? Really? YOu're better off without that mess. MOve on. He doesn't do drugs. It was painkillers. He said he was fed up with the world.
mammasita Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 You can't fix him.....and helping to fix him won't make him stay with you. Let this broken man and broken woman be together. He's done you a favor.
sweetkiwi Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 He doesn't do drugs. It was painkillers. He said he was fed up with the world. Prescription painkillers ARE drugs..............
Soat Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 He doesn't do drugs. It was painkillers. He said he was fed up with the world. You are not making it any better . So now you're saying he's illegally using painkillers and suicidal. WTF is wrong with you??? Get the heck out of this mess...
theonlyjuan Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 Just go NC work on yourself and your own life. You will meet a nice guy who ain't abusing drugs and doesn't want to die. I know you have feelings for him but he pushed you away, so stay away. Time to move on
Author Sweetiepie24 Posted August 24, 2013 Author Posted August 24, 2013 You are not making it any better . So now you're saying he's illegally using painkillers and suicidal. WTF is wrong with you??? Get the heck out of this mess... I'm just saying what he did. It was painkillers just bought from the supermarket or wherever. He wasn't like this when I was with him. Also you can't help who you're in love with. I would love to move on
Soat Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 I'm just saying what he did. It was painkillers just bought from the supermarket or wherever. He wasn't like this when I was with him. Also you can't help who you're in love with. I would love to move on My point is take a HARD look at him. Your job is not to save people from themselves in a relationship, in fact that's a primary cause of most dysfunctional relationships. As been said above, a sweet cute girl is VERY rare (I just ended being with one and its been hard). You likely will blink and find a better guy that fast.
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