alphabetagamma Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 Hey folks, I'm going to university on monday, but my ex GF goes to the same uni as me, we will start seeing each others 1-2 days a week. The problem is that I'm in NC and it's currently 14th day. When I last time saw her I told her that I'm starting LC, accept your rebound and wished them luck. I told her that we should keep low contact for 3-4 since we are not together anymore. She went mad/sad/cried/told me how bad rebound actually is. She also asked why I'm throwing 4 years of our relationship away (but she brokeup with me and went rebound, LOL) After that she told me something like: "You will still start seeing me in uni, I'll catch you up for sure, you cant ignore me there and blabla" - she looked real btw In the past 12 days I have received 2 breadcrumbs from her, but nothing serious. Was wondering, how should I act when I see her? Obviously I would say HI and pretend everything is cool, but what if she comes to talk to me or sits to my table when I'm eating lunch? FULL NC in this kind of situation is overkill, I think. It would look immature and silly when the person is talking to me in real life, face to face. What should I do in this case? I know she will starts to talk to me since she doesn't have much friends in uni and I know her too much. Just act nonchalance or.. ?
Soat Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 Be polite. And just say that you're in process of recovering and could she please give you space to heal.
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