clairedunham Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 I have to come to terms the r/s is over. It hit me. I love him and I'm gonna let him go. I'm actually at peace with it right now. I don't and cant cry anymore. 5
Nicoleiia Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 Yes, don't cry. These dumpers are not worth our tears and for us to be unhappy forever. Its hard to let them go, but when you finally do eventually you move on and (somewhat) forget about them. It hurts, but it is better than hanging on to the past and begging/pleading for them to be with you. All us dumpees have to except defeat and move on.
Soat Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 I have to come to terms the r/s is over. It hit me. I love him and I'm gonna let him go. I'm actually at peace with it right now. I don't and cant cry anymore. Yay claire! That 5 page thread yesterday sunk in! Now just take it one day at a time.
dgiirl Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 Good for you! What 5 page thread? I'll be curious to read it! I've been trying to focus on acceptance myself. For moment's, I've been able to attain it. Then I fall back into false hope. I feel better when I just try to accept that it is over. But I fear maybe I'm in denial and I need to feel my emotions too. It's all so confusing.
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