Naive Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 OK fess up. Who here in LS has cheated? If so, why?
Sukotto Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Well It was only 3 weeks into this new relationship and while at a friends birthday party I got a bit drunk and made out with her. The thing is my friends boyfriend was also at the party but he didn't know about it. I confessed to my girlfriend when we broke up more than 2 years after it happened and she didn't seem to bothered about it and well me and my friend never mentioned it again, it was alcohol induced.
Athene Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Does this count? Its rather stupid I cheated on my boyfriend when i was 8 years old. He was 8 as well and we where in the same class together and a gorgeous *guy* (he was only 8) come into the room with a cowboy hat on and the full works. He completely bowled me over and we kissed in front of my boyfriend. Only a peck on the cheek no tongues -QUOTE- Ah'ma good girl, ah am." --Audrey Hepburn. And we were boyfriend and girlfriend the whole day until the following day when he come in in normal clothes. So i dumped him and carried on seeing the first *guy*. Gosh i was i was that young again
Leikela Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 I've only cheated on a boyfriend once. We had been dating for 3 months and it was starting to become apparant that he wasn't going to be "the one". At the time, I was hanging out with this other guy who had become a really close friend of mine and actually started to have feelings for. One night we were all drinking at a bar and as part of a dare (it's a long story) I kissed my guy friend. I was drunk at the time (still no excuse) but swore that would be the only time I would kiss him. I struggled for weeks after that but the guy and me were just so drawn to one another. I finally broke up with my boyfriend (I should have done it sooner but hindsight is 20/20) and hooked up with my guy friend. We are still together today after almost 2 years and live together. He's definitely going to be the man I am going to marry too. It worked out for the best in the end even though I should have handled it differently but you live and learn.
jmargel Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 I didn't cheat on anyone, but someone cheated on their husband with me. About 3-4 years ago, I met this woman who I became friends with. She was married for 18 years, but was in an abusive relationship. She never cheated before. My intention was to not have sex with her, I just basically listened to her problems and helping her out. Well, one day it went too far. She didn't have any regrets over it, but 2 weeks later she came over to my house to tell me she was in love with me. The feeling wasn't mutual, and she didn't take it too well. But overall I believe it was a good thing, because it woke her up to the fact there are decent guys out there. She moved out and is with someone else who loves her alot. She just needed the courage. I'm not proud at the fact I did this, but at least something good came out of it.
250r Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 I guess I'm a weirdo, I'm 30 and have never cheated on anyone ever. Never plan to.
bulldoggirl Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 I'm 26 & have never cheated. Been cheated on though
reservoirdog1 Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 I'm a weirdo like 250r. 32 years old. Never have, never will.
EC Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 reservoirdog1 I started to believe you and then I read your sig
Owl Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Tempted a few times??? Heck yeah. Ever followed through with it (or even given real thought to doing so)??? Hell no.
EC Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Well ok hold on...do you mean cheat as in sleep with someone else...because people have many different definitions of what cheating is to them. As for me anything with another person is cheating and it's wrong and I feel bad and yet I did it. A week ago..I'm going to hell.
Author Naive Posted November 11, 2004 Author Posted November 11, 2004 I've cheated I feel bad about it though.
Author Naive Posted November 11, 2004 Author Posted November 11, 2004 Originally posted by EtErNaLlYCoNfUsEd As for me anything with another person is cheating and it's wrong and I feel bad and yet I did it. A week ago..I'm going to hell. I consider almost anything cheating. EC are you serious???
Sweetz Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Yes I have and just did recently and feel really bad about it but I keep doing it.
EC Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Yeah I was having a moment it was a just a pop kiss, I didn't want to post about it but then what a coincidence Naive posts this thread and I felt bad... But yeah really don't want to discuss it openly for reasons you know...
tiki Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 .....ok, and back to your regularly scheduled program....
kiwi29f Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 I've cheated twice, Once when I was 16, I had only been dating my bf for like a week & was at a party & got drunk. This guy I had been crushing on for a while but didn't hang out with started hitting on me & we ended up making out all night. My boyfriend found out a month later & we broke up but remained good friends for years. The second time I had been dating this guy for 2 years, the love of my life, so I thought anyway. Me & his babys momma(yeah I know) went to a friends house b/c I was pissed at my bf b/c he had brought over another girl & she pretended to be with his friend Mitch but it was SO obvious she was with my bf & then he left with them after I told him not too. Well our friends roomate was there & we started flirting & he ended up kissing me & we ended up making out, But so what my bf was cheating on me right in front of me & it wasn't the first time he had cheated on me. We ended up breaking up the next day(I broke up w/ him) He started dating THAT girl. They only lasted 2 weeks(haha) & he started begging me to take him back. And 4 years later I am married to the roomate & we have a beautiful daughter together & are very happy.
Sukotto Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Originally posted by naive_2001 I consider almost anything cheating. Well being intimate with someone is what I'd consider cheating, that covers kissing, sex or sharing a romantic moment in someones arms on the beach etc. I kiss my female friends goodbye and well my girlfriend at the time wasn't bothered about it, though the first time she saw me do it she was like WTF and thought it was wierd and called me on it once they were all gone, but she realised that my friends and I are all pretty close, known each other a good 9 years.
sassy123 Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 I am single, seeing a married man. All is going well.
Sweetz Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Originally posted by sassy123 I am single, seeing a married man. All is going well. for now that is
jmargel Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Ok.. with the previous two posts. I can predict your future. Sassy123, one day you'll be on here posting in the OM/OW forum, asking questions on 'when is he going to leave his wife, etc..' or complaining about this or that regarding your so called 'relationship'. Guess what, you are wasting your time. He won't leave her, and you'll end up emotionally empy because of this. He's using you, plain and simple. Just visit that forum and show me one story where he left his wife & went with the mistress to live happily ever after. Sweetz, you don't feel bad about what you are doing, otherwise you would've stopped. If you aren't happy in the relationship leave, otherwise all you are doing is hurting him, you & the other guy. Quit being so ****ing selfish. Nothing good will happen out of either one of your situations.
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