divalee Posted November 10, 2004 Posted November 10, 2004 Hello. I am from the Philippines and I have an online bf who is 15 yrs older than me from USA. We talk every day and night my time and we really love each other. I was planning to leave for abroad to work but I cancelled after meeting him because if I do then it's hard for us to communicate with each other. He plans to see me soon and he wants me to apply for a fiance visa. I am not working now and I need money, he is sending money soon until he comes to see me and after he leaves he will send money. There are things I wanted to have now but they dont cost much, is it ok to ask him?, he told me before he will send me things but I am not sure what he would buy for me. I want beauty products so bad, new lingeries, is that ok to ask him to send me?, Please tell me. And give me advice too what beauty products I should have. I want shiny hair, pimple free face, silk skin, vitamins to take. I am 30 but underweight for my height. Thank you.
GirlDown Posted November 10, 2004 Posted November 10, 2004 this man is taking advantage of your childlike naive nature. he is going to hurt you, somehow. run as fast as you can away from this man. seriously. it's not worth it.
Naive Posted November 10, 2004 Posted November 10, 2004 Originally posted by GirlDown this man is taking advantage of your childlike naive nature. he is going to hurt you, somehow. run as fast as you can away from this man. seriously. it's not worth it. How do you know he is going to hurt her?
Merin Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Is it okay to ask someone you've NEVER met in person to send you "Gifts" IMO NO it's NOT okay to ask anyone short of your Mom, Dad, Family member, or joint bank account SO to buy you, give you or send you "Gifts"
bluechocolate Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Originally posted by Merin2 Is it okay to ask someone you've NEVER met in person to send you "Gifts" IMO NO it's NOT okay to ask anyone short of your Mom, Dad, Family member, or joint bank account SO to buy you, give you or send you "Gifts" I was wondering how to reply to this - but that will do. Thanks Merin2. (p.s. what happened to Merin1?)
Merin Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Originally posted by bluechocolate I was wondering how to reply to this - but that will do. Thanks Merin2. (p.s. what happened to Merin1?) Merin1.. what happened to her... someone asked her to send them a "Gift" and she went into the witness protection program!
Naive Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Originally posted by Merin2 Merin1.. what happened to her... someone asked her to send them a "Gift" and she went into the witness protection program! :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:
bluechocolate Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Originally posted by naive_2001 :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: yes - hardy har har
Merin Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Originally posted by bluechocolate yes - hardy har har Blue, will you send me a gift now? I'm willing to make an exception... can we call it the LS family?
bluechocolate Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Originally posted by Merin2 Blue, will you send me a gift now? I'm willing to make an exception... can we call it the LS family? I'd like to meet Merin3 first.
Merin Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Originally posted by bluechocolate I'd like to meet Merin3 first.
GirlDown Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 naive 2001 read the initial post again. but reeeeeallly read it. some things are not adding up. it's creepy. of course, i was trained in criminal justice, not in happily-ever-after land, so maybe i am biased. i just wouldn't fall for it. the distance, the money, the 100-mph online relationship, i don't buy it. and it just isn't worth it.
bluechocolate Posted November 11, 2004 Posted November 11, 2004 Originally posted by GirlDown some things are not adding up. it's creepy. of course, i was trained in criminal justice, not in happily-ever-after land, so maybe i am biased. i just wouldn't fall for it. the distance, the money, the 100-mph online relationship, i don't buy it. and it just isn't worth it. I agree with you - it sounded creepy to me too. And I'm always wary when people say things like "we really love each other" & they've never even met - it's delusional.
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