lalalovekay Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Its my 5 days of no contact. I still want to be with him and he obviously doesnt. He said we could be friends but the last thing I ever said to him was "I gave you your space so please give me mine" Will he ever text me? Like if he EVER misses me will he text me? He usually breaks no contact after 3 or 4 days but he hasnt tried. I lost all hope I had, but I just need to know. Do you guys think he'll ever text me?
Author lalalovekay Posted August 23, 2013 Author Posted August 23, 2013 Probably but who knows I mean would you? After what I said?
clairedunham Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 I don't know him nor the situation but it seems he has made up his mind?. If he does contact you and you dont want that tell him to stop.
theonlyjuan Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 So you told him not to contact you, but want him to contact you? If my ex said leave me alone, I would not text her or anything. Not everyone is the same, some ex's don't take no for an answer. I am confused 1
Author lalalovekay Posted August 23, 2013 Author Posted August 23, 2013 So you told him not to contact you, but want him to contact you? If my ex said leave me alone, I would not text her or anything. Not everyone is the same, some ex's don't take no for an answer. I am confused Its just so I dont know I said that without thinking. He just wants to be friends and I tried but I cant. Can you read my whole story. I just posted it last night.
may_girl Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 You need to take this day by day. Work on yourself and don't focus your energies on him as much. Turn this hurt and upset into something productive. It is hard I know but there is no other alternative. Unless you want to stay in a cycle of decline you need to move forward. If he contacts you, deal with it when it happens. If he doesn't, there is nothing more you can do. The ball is in his court. It is time for you to live your life the best you can and give him something to regret. 2
Author lalalovekay Posted August 23, 2013 Author Posted August 23, 2013 I don't know him nor the situation but it seems he has made up his mind?. If he does contact you and you dont want that tell him to stop. Well its my birthday in a few days so im hoping he contacts me by then and if he does ill reply if not ill just admit he really wants nothing w me
may_girl Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 By 'the ball is in his court' I mean you can't change his mind about wanting to be with you. You cant be friends with him with feelings involved. Work past this and who knows what the future holds.
Author lalalovekay Posted August 23, 2013 Author Posted August 23, 2013 You need to take this day by day. Work on yourself and don't focus your energies on him as much. Turn this hurt and upset into something productive. It is hard I know but there is no other alternative. Unless you want to stay in a cycle of decline you need to move forward. If he contacts you, deal with it when it happens. If he doesn't, there is nothing more you can do. The ball is in his court. It is time for you to live your life the best you can and give him something to regret. Thank you. I just hope he could at least fight for it at least friendship just a little bit. Ill wait and see thank you
may_girl Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Thank you. I just hope he could at least fight for it at least friendship just a little bit. Ill wait and see thank you He probably knows full well that friendship cannot be until time has passed and you have overcome your grief for the relationship. If you attempted friendship right now, it will jeopardize any future potential friendship you two may have Good luck, you will be fine. Stick to NC and it is amazing what that alone can do.
Author lalalovekay Posted August 23, 2013 Author Posted August 23, 2013 He probably knows full well that friendship cannot be until time has passed and you have overcome your grief for the relationship. If you attempted friendship right now, it will jeopardize any future potential friendship you two may have Good luck, you will be fine. Stick to NC and it is amazing what that alone can do. I just ran into his sister ),: it made me miss him so much more
FearingTEN Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 I feel your pain. Im in NC with my ex and its only been 2 days. Just hang in there. If you were a good gf to him, then dropping from his life completely will make him wonder. Hang in there and be strong. I wish you the best
Author lalalovekay Posted August 23, 2013 Author Posted August 23, 2013 I feel your pain. Im in NC with my ex and its only been 2 days. Just hang in there. If you were a good gf to him, then dropping from his life completely will make him wonder. Hang in there and be strong. I wish you the best I wish you the best too!. I just ran into his sister and somehow that made me feel good. Maybe shell tell him she saw me so I can at least be on his mind.
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