rastamoose Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 I am not ugly or anything and I know I do have a personality. I struggle to get girls attention and I often panic and don't know what to say or do. My friend is a good looking guy, got muscles and is tall. Girls just seem to flock to him. He is naturally good at chatting to girls and they always hang on his every word, he is always able to make them laugh. I've heard girls say he is really charming. Is it a case of me having to hit the gym more, or do I need to change my personality? It just annoys me, he seems to get their attention even when he's not trying to
Maleficent Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 The idea is not to be your friend. This will come off as fake. Be the best you you can be. someone will like you just like that. Though joining a gym is not a bad idea - for your health and self-esteem. Plus you'll meet new people. Also, I see a lot of men wanting to meet girls. But they forget that men know women. So go ahead and join a sports team. Make new guy friends. They'll introduce you to their friends, wife's friends, cousins, sisters etc etc etc
Philosoraptor Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Confidence will help you more than anything. If you're not ugly and have a good personality, it just comes down to letting it out. Stop overthinking when you talk and just let things flow naturally. It's not a big decision here, just say hi and talk to them like you'd talk to anyone else.
Bito Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Don't be him be you. Not everyone likes big muscles and overly charasmatic people. Your problem for sure is confidence and your mindset. Being charming comes naturaly when you are comfortable with yourself.
Knoxpwns Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 I am not ugly or anything and I know I do have a personality. I struggle to get girls attention and I often panic and don't know what to say or do. My friend is a good looking guy, got muscles and is tall. Girls just seem to flock to him. He is naturally good at chatting to girls and they always hang on his every word, he is always able to make them laugh. I've heard girls say he is really charming. Is it a case of me having to hit the gym more, or do I need to change my personality? It just annoys me, he seems to get their attention even when he's not trying to I've found the women who are attracted to completely ripped body builders are usually nowhere near the kind of woman I want to be with. Not saying they are bad, just not my cup of tea. In short - be you. If you gotta fake it to make it, then the relationship will be as fake as you were. 1
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