bougs Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Please help.. My ex girlfriend told me to stay as friend because she don't wanna lose me. She keeps pushing me to communicate with her like friends. Ever since she go back to her hometown she already change a lot and no time for me anymore. It's been six months now that she live in her hometown. We've been together like a married couple for almost 2 years. She said that she like me a lot but now we are far she don't know if she still loves me. She still wears the ring that i give to her and she told me that she didn't give up on me. She just don't want to feel guilty if she didn't return my txt and call. Do i need to communicate with her? I don't know what to do. :(
clairedunham Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Please help.. My ex girlfriend told me to stay as friend because she don't wanna lose me. She keeps pushing me to communicate with her like friends. Ever since she go back to her hometown she already change a lot and no time for me anymore. It's been six months now that she live in her hometown. We've been together like a married couple for almost 2 years. She said that she like me a lot but now we are far she don't know if she still loves me. She still wears the ring that i give to her and she told me that she didn't give up on me. She just don't want to feel guilty if she didn't return my txt and call. Do i need to communicate with her? I don't know what to do. :( Egh things like this make me cringe. This is actually your decision now. I think you should take time for yourself or if you want to be her friend that's good too. Think hard and well
Author bougs Posted August 23, 2013 Author Posted August 23, 2013 if i ask myself on what i should do. i really love her and i still wanna be with her. when we live together before she's different. now i know we are far from each other that's the reason she became like that. i still wanna pursue her and become more persistent but i know she don't love me like before. at the moment i already stop contacting her for 4 days now.. :(
Soat Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 That's cause you're never friends with an ex. It always dies
Chi townD Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Dude, she still wants to communicate with you because you'll fill her emotional needs. you'll give her an ego boost when she needs it. But, as soon as she finds someone else to supply those things, you're gonna get kicked to the curb and she'll give you some excuse like, " My new boyfriend doesn't like that we talk so much. So, I'm gonna need to back off for a while." Don't put yourself in that position.
Author bougs Posted August 24, 2013 Author Posted August 24, 2013 i already remove all means of communication. its already day 5 now. i know i can get through with this. all i can think of is that she cannot find someone who can love her as much as i can :)
MontyCarlo Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 i already remove all means of communication. its already day 5 now. i know i can get through with this. all i can think of is that she cannot find someone who can love her as much as i can :) Sounds like your still hanging on to me. No offence intended.
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