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Breaking Up For The Better


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My ex girlfriend and I are far from apart.

 

I took the unusual road. I didn't do NC. We went through a rough week then resumed regular contact. It's all different now though, I'll admit that. When she told me she didn't love me like she used to, that really hurt.

 

Nonetheless, in a series of texts (look at my old post) she basically said she doesn't know what she wants. Every day she always says these cute things about how my hands are so soft and my eyes are so nice and stuff, but I just don't know how to take it. I wanna just suggest the idea of getting back together, but at the same time I want to tell her to not **** with me.

 

I don't know whats next, but here's my question: can this break up somehow help us rebuild and be even stronger?

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Yes, but only if both parties take care of themselves and grow as people. Remember though that through growth, comes change. And that the more you grow, you or your ex may not feel like trying again is a good idea.

 

Don't worry about whether or not your ex will come back. Just take care of you, for you. So that no matter what happens you'l be in the best position to take advantage of wherever you are in life.

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