Unfortunate Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 My ex girlfriend and I are far from apart. I took the unusual road. I didn't do NC. We went through a rough week then resumed regular contact. It's all different now though, I'll admit that. When she told me she didn't love me like she used to, that really hurt. Nonetheless, in a series of texts (look at my old post) she basically said she doesn't know what she wants. Every day she always says these cute things about how my hands are so soft and my eyes are so nice and stuff, but I just don't know how to take it. I wanna just suggest the idea of getting back together, but at the same time I want to tell her to not **** with me. I don't know whats next, but here's my question: can this break up somehow help us rebuild and be even stronger?
hellischrome Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Maybe. Or maybe not. And we don't wanna end up with a destroyed you around here. I am sorry to say that if she doesn't know what she wants, it means trouble for you. It means she is not ok, and that will reflect on you if you agree on any sort of actual relationship with her. It may be a moment but it may just mean that she really needs to find out what she wants and you have to deal with the fact that you may not be included in it.
alphabetagamma Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Been there, done that few weeks ago. Well, if you feel that she ISN'T there and this is NOT what YOU want, then back off. She is probably confused + have lost a little attraction towards to you. Start improving yourself and go NC or at least LC. Until she WANTS/BEGS/NEEDS. She have to show you REAL actions, small talk or going to movies is not enough to fix this relationship. Both persons have to be committed to this.
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