SMALLTOWNBLUES Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 So I have been NC with my ex but we have to speak about the deposit and all that is going on with our house... (LAST WEEK!!!!! WOO HOO!) She starts off asking me how im doing, if Im excited about a concert im playing and I am very short and to the point. Then I tell her Im busy planning a flight to California and its been taking up my time and she gets all standoffish and tells me shes going to Cali in Oct. She is the one pushing the "let's be friends" angle whenever she sees me round town and I don't force it and then when we talk she just says F**K you, youre a piece of shi* and this that and the other. I am all about the NC but I do miss her so when she contacts me, I dont necessarily want breadcrumbs, I just want to know i'm not THAT easily forgotten. I just leave every gchat convo or text with a headscratching wtf? I thought that ex's tried to be nice to make themselves feel better so why be mean??? After this week, we have no reason to speak to each other. So we will see after that. I'm just trying to move on and it's hard. I am dating loosely tho. Worth noting, I have a few of her items and she asked for a dress that I threw away the day I found out about her and my friend's affair. It wasnt even a dress, just a nightgown that was sexy and when she wore it, it always turned me on. Threw it away cos I didnt want my "buddy" to get that thrill. So I told her that and she went off on a tirade. She broke and stole a bunch of my stuff, so I dont feel bad. Just realizing most breakups dont end bittersweetly. Just full of venom.
Soat Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Uh why are you not blocking her on gchat Facebook etc.
Balzac Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 It's far easier for her and expedient to place blame onto you rather than to own her poor behavior/decisions. It's defensive action.
crederer Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Ya similar situation. I've been in LC with my ex. Seen each other about once or twice a month since the break up. She was there when my grandma passed (4 months after break up). When the two of us meet she's cool, then we happened to be at the same bar (first time in a social atmosphere with other friends) and she was so rude to me. I don't get it either. Then a few days later she texts me saying she's sorry for being rude, she doesn't know why she was like that and that she wants us to be able to be cordial (lot of mutual friends, we're going to see a lot of each other). Then we bump into each other again and same thing. Completely rude and obnoxious toward me for no reason. I didn't do anything bad to this girl.
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