FearingTEN Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 I don't know how much more I can take. I love her so much. She broke up with me after 2 and a ha,f years and began dating another guy after 2 weeks. Life is so hard. From day to night, I dont know what to do anymore. Please help me. I love her so much. I begged and cried to her for two months. I realize that non of it works. I began no contact since yesterday. I love her. Please give me tips on how to get her back. I hate life right now. I miss her kisses. 1
Mrfr Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 Keep that chin up! You'll get through it. I've been two weeks NC and it does get easier, bit of a setback tonight as I really miss having her as a best mate.
Knoxpwns Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 (edited) I don't know how much more I can take. I love her so much. She broke up with me after 2 and a ha,f years and began dating another guy after 2 weeks. Life is so hard. From day to night, I dont know what to do anymore. Please help me. I love her so much. I begged and cried to her for two months. I realize that non of it works. I began no contact since yesterday. I love her. Please give me tips on how to get her back. I hate life right now. I miss her kisses. My girlfriend of over 6 years was telling people she was in a relationship with another man before she even broke up with me to my face. I know how hard it is man, but my tears stopped after about a week. why? Because I realize that I am a great person, and that there is no reason for me to cry over someone who wouldn't cry for me. The best tip I can offer for getting her back, is don't. You begged and pleaded for 2 months, what else can you do? You can move on. You can prove to her you can be happy without her. Perhaps finding yourself is what you need to show her who you really are, and perhaps down the road you can show her your happy life without her, and she will show you her happy life without you, and perhaps the stars will align and your happy lives can merge. I realized from my failed relationship that your existence can't revolve around another person. Your partner needs to enrich your life, not be your life. Do you first, and only then can you realize what you can give her. And for all you know, once you find your happiness without her, maybe you won't even want her anymore. Thats what happened to me, anyway. Do I miss her? God yes. Do I hate my life? Right now, I kind of do. But I realize my true worth, and I'm taking my life by the reigns and making it the life I want. You'll get there, in time. Edited August 22, 2013 by Knoxpwns 3
JDPT Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 Continue to cry, get it all out. I would highly suggest to seek professional help by way of a therapist. He/she will help you in teaching you healthier methods to cope with this breakup. I understand how excruciating it is, that's stating the obvious but what's most important here is what you are planning on doing to get yourself out of the whole? in other words, you have a problem now, how are you planning to solve it?
Jiminy Cricket Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 I don't know how much more I can take. I love her so much. She broke up with me after 2 and a ha,f years and began dating another guy after 2 weeks. Life is so hard. From day to night, I dont know what to do anymore. Please help me. I love her so much. I begged and cried to her for two months. I realize that non of it works. I began no contact since yesterday. I love her. Please give me tips on how to get her back. I hate life right now. I miss her kisses. same as me. i hate life too. i miss my ex gf so much! there's nothing we can do its up to them.
Jiminy Cricket Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 i keep complaining about never being able to get a gf. Now im kinda glad im single. theres a lot of relationship and breakup drama! no offence relationship people. Theres pros and cons of being in a relationship just like there is with being single. its better to have been loved and lost it, than never to have loved at all. 1
Heysimon Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Whatever you do DO NOT BREAK NC !!!! Read that 50 times then when you feel like breaking NC , stick a fork in your eye..... if you go blind that is your fault... The only way she is going to come back is via NC, you are deeply implanted in her subconscious, you made her soooo confident that you would never go away that she doesn't have to worry about you being there....
JDPT Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Nope. Better to have loved and won. Loving and losing sucks balls. Speaks the truth 1
clairedunham Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 I used to hate it when people said that. It is by far the most bull*****-cliched thing anyone can say. "I feel like my heart had been ripped out of my chest and thrown in a meat-grinder... but it's better than not loving at all!" Bull*****. You actually have a point aspiringguitarheroine 1
hotpotato Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 Be honest. Are you attractive right now? I'm promise you shouldn't probably wouldn't find the crying attractive. It's normal to feel sad. In a couple months you may not even care if she comes back. Keep your head up.
hotpotato Posted August 25, 2013 Posted August 25, 2013 its better to have been loved and lost it, than never to have loved at all. Hmmm...Thats debatable. 1
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