What's the point of friendship?

[love1336x]

I feel I am a great amazing supportive friend. Maybe I am giving myself too much credit, but I feel I am.

 

I known people for so many years, and once their boyfriend, girlfriend, whoever their like come into the picture... I feel GONE, not needed.

 

It hurts because when I do have a boyfriend. I DO NOT CHANGE. I stay so faithful... I still want to hang around them. I mean I still give my boyfriend pretty of time, but he doesn't become my world... I am not attached 24/7.

 

I mean if a relationship is healthy isn't spending time apart a good thing? :/

 

Maybe I am too loyal, maybe I care too much about these "bonds" I have created with these people... because they don't really seem to care for me as I do for them. :/

 

it's not random people either... people since I known since I was young teenager... Maybe this is my inner child thinking we could be friends forever.

 

But, if a person won't make any effort to be part of my life. I am not going to stress, and sulk anymore. I know who I am. I know what I can give, and I feel I am great person, anyone who can't see that... then whatever.

[Tayla]

Glad you are loyal and supportive. Contingent on the responsibilities of those deemed Friends there can be reasons ( valid ones!) for the transistion of time spent. I'm a believer in the quality of time spent as opposed to the quantity of time shared. Sounds that you have maintained a healthy balance in your life of how you share your time. It may not always be reciprocated, yet we as humans do need friends and a support system that accentuates one another.

 

Its my hope that you do change in some ways thru out your adult life...for change can bring wisdom, talent and the ability to rebuild /recreate yourself.

[jacksonvillae]

Many people I know and many friends I have.You choose what kind a friend you want.The friends i have are the best friends I could ever ask for and have never been anything but a good friend